Search my Blog

There’s a point on the twin flame journey when you ask yourself, broken and exhausted, "Will this emptiness ever end?" And the honest answer is: yes. But not in the way you think. Not by getting what you thought you needed. Not by reunion solving everything. The void doesn't go away because someone else fills it. It goes away because you do the inner work. At the beginning, I thought I felt hopeless. It felt as if this connection was a punishment, a cruel joke played by the universe to show me everything I couldn’t have. The love I want - tangible, physical, human  - out of reach, mocking me. I tried to force it into being. I tried to rationalise it away. I tried to persuade myself that I didn’t want it. But the twin flame journey doesn’t let you hide. It takes you apart. It tears down every illusion you ever built: about yourself, about love, about what would make you whole. And somewhere in the ashes of all that burning, something else begins to reveal itself. Not your twin. Not your happy ending. You. The real you. The one who was never broken to begin with. The one who was always whole but didn’t know it. You realise that the void you felt was not created by your twin’s absence. It was created by the ways you had abandoned yourself long before they ever arrived. There comes a moment when all the illusions burn. When you stop clinging to a human outcome. When you stop waiting for love to arrive at your door. When you finally see that sacred union is not something you find: it is something you become. The void you feel is real. It is painful. It is the fire of initiation. But it is not forever. Because as you walk deeper into your own soul, as you let go, not from defeat but from trust, as you surrender the need for anything outside you to validate your worth, the void begins to fill. Not with anything external. But with the divine presence that has been within you all along. And when that happens, the longing fades, the ache quiets, and the desperate reaching softens into peace. Because you no longer need to be saved. Because you have already come home. I appreciate this is easily said. I can assure you that it’s true from my own experience. But here are some practices that may help you to embody this truth for yourself: Twin Flame Journey Daily Practices (Think of these as watering the seeds every day.) 1. Self-Devotion Practice (5 minutes a day) Each morning or evening, light a candle (or even just pause) and consciously  place your hands on your heart. Say out loud or internally: " I am already whole. " " I choose to return to myself. " " Love lives in me. Love is me. " Visualise yourself as a beautiful flame - whole, bright, alive - with no gaps, no missing parts. You are reinforcing truth over feeling . At first it might feel fake. That’s okay. This is about building a bridge  to the deeper reality that already exists. 2. Witness Your Longing Without Feeding It When you feel the void, the loneliness, the ache - don't suppress it  and don't spiral into it . Instead, sit with it  as if you are sitting with a child who is crying. Gently say to yourself: " This longing is not wrong. It is showing me where love wants to grow within me. " Breathe deeply and imagine softening  around the feeling instead of tightening or resisting. You are teaching your nervous system that it is safe  to feel emptiness, and by doing that, you transform it. 3. Nature Contact (Daily if possible) Spend time outside - even 10 minutes - consciously connecting  to life around you. Look at a tree, the sky, the earth and remember: everything here is in relationship. Feel how the earth already loves you  - with every breath, every blade of grass, every beam of sunlight. The void shrinks when you reconnect to the living world , not just the mental/emotional world. Deeper Practices (These are more transformational over time.) 4. Inner Child Dialogue Your twin flame journey triggers old wounds - especially of abandonment, not being chosen, being unworthy. Set aside time (even once a week) to journal or meditate: " Little Me what do you need from me today? " Write down whatever comes. Then write back from your adult self: reassuring, comforting, LOVING that inner part the way you wish someone had done long ago. You are slowly filling the void from inside out . 5. Shadow Work Ritual Once a month (or when it feels strong), intentionally sit down and ask: " What feeling am I most afraid to feel right now? " " What am I still hoping someone else will fix for me? " Let yourself name it honestly without shame. Then say: " I claim this shadow as part of my wholeness. " Imagine embracing the part of you that is still afraid or hurting. Instead of exiling your pain, you are loving it into healing. Mindset Reframe to Carry Every Day "I am not healing to get something. I am healing to remember I already have everything." The twin flame path is about becoming love , not earning love. Every day you return to this truth, you weaken the illusion that anything outside of you can complete you. Quick Summary: Practice Focus How Often? Self-Devotion Remind yourself you are whole Daily Witness Longing Hold yourself tenderly in the void Daily Nature Contact Feel life loving you Daily if possible Inner Child Dialogue Heal abandonment at the root Weekly Shadow Work Transform fear into acceptance Monthly or when needed Here’s a Sacred Ceremony of Returning to Self  that you can do at home. This isn’t about "doing it perfectly." It’s about setting an intention so clear, so true, that it reshapes the energy you are walking with. 🌸 Sacred Ceremony of Returning to Self 🌸 Purpose: To honour the end of clinging, the end of waiting, the end of seeking outside yourself, and to reclaim your inner wholeness. To mark the sacred turning point: from longing ➔ to living in love. ✨ What You’ll Need: A candle  (any size or colour — something you like) A small bowl of water  (to represent emotion, soul, purification) A stone or crystal  (optional — something that feels grounding) A piece of paper and a pen (Optional) Some flowers, incense, or music you love ✨ Steps: 1. Prepare Your Space Choose a time when you won't be interrupted. Clean the space lightly beforehand (even just tidying a corner) to show you're creating sacredness. Lay everything out before you — candle, water, stone, paper. Light your candle. Say aloud (or whisper): "I am creating a sacred space to return to myself. I am ready to release what no longer serves me. I am ready to remember who I am." 2. Ground Yourself Sit comfortably. Hold your stone or simply place your hands over your heart. Take 7 deep, slow breaths. On each inhale, imagine breathing in peace. On each exhale, imagine letting go of fear, longing, grasping. Feel yourself sink  into your own body, your own energy. 3. Invocation: Calling In the Divine Say (in your own words, or use this): "Divine Source, Love that lives within me and around me, Be here now. Help me remember that I am already whole, Already loved, Already free." 4. The Release: Letting Go of Clinging Take your piece of paper. Write down everything  you are ready to release: "I release my fear of being alone." "I release the belief that my twin has to choose me to be worthy." "I release my attachment to a human outcome." (Anything else that comes.) When you're done, fold the paper  and touch it to the flame  (carefully — you can have a fireproof dish ready) or rip it up  and drop the pieces into the water. As you do, say: "I let this go. I choose to walk free. I choose to trust Love itself to lead me." 5. The Return: Reclaiming Yourself Now place your hands back over your heart. Say: "I welcome myself home. I am love. I am whole. I am my own beloved." If you feel moved, you can gently touch your shoulders, your arms, your face, affirming to yourself that you are precious and beloved exactly as you are. Imagine golden light filling every part of you that once felt hollow. The void becoming a wellspring of light . The missing pieces were never missing , they were just waiting for you to remember them. 6. Closing the Ceremony Thank yourself for showing up. Thank the divine presence (however you sense it). Blow out the candle, saying: "This flame continues in me." You might want to end by listening to a beautiful piece of music, going outside to touch the earth, or simply sitting in silence for a few minutes. 🌟 Aftercare: The ceremony will shift something subtle but deep. In the days that follow: Be gentle with yourself. Watch for small moments when you feel lighter, freer. Repeat to yourself often: " I am my own beloved. " If grief arises honour it. It is part of the clearing. If joy arises welcome it. It is the new life coming through. 💗 Read how my Twin Flame Journey felt: My Twin Flame Journey: 8 Years On And if you feel called to seek personal support along the way, know that you don’t have to walk this path alone. I’m here when you need me. Learn more about what I offer here . Free Twin Flame Resources If you'd like to explore this journey more deeply, I’ve written a series of essays to help you navigate the big questions that arise - and to support you as you begin the inner work this path asks of you. They ALL encourage you to remember that you are the expert on you and you have everything you need within to walk this path with grace and to a successful destination.   Twin Flame Q&A's | Conversations A note on AI & my writing: I use ChatGPT as a writing assistant—not as a writer. These are my thoughts, ideas, and words, shaped by my lived experience and deep love for self-work, self-awareness, the spiritual journey, and astrology. AI helps me refine, structure, and nudge me toward better phrasing, but the voice you’re reading is mine. I use it as a tool to help me put into words everything I believe is valuable in sharing my insights. Honesty matters to me, and this is simply one way I bring my thoughts to life.

There comes a moment on the twin flame journey when all the illusions burn. When you realise no one is coming to save you. When you see that clinging to a human outcome only chains you to your own suffering. When the idea of union becomes less important than the truth breaking open inside you. This is not punishment. This is the real initiation. You don’t need faith in your twin. You need faith in the divine. In the path that strips you bare. In the fire that leaves only what is real. The twin flame journey isn’t about waiting for love to arrive at your door. It’s about remembering you are already made of it. That sacred union isn’t something you find. It’s something you become : through every heartbreak, every letting go, every step deeper into your own soul. This isn’t the easy way. It’s the only way. And it will cost you everything that was never really yours to begin with. Letting Go, Not Giving Up You are not asked to let go of your twin because it "won’t happen." You are asked to let go because clinging to a human outcome keeps you small. Maybe union will happen. Maybe it won’t. But either way, the journey is moving you to the same place: Home. Back to yourself. Back to the divine within you. True union. Sacred union. Begins within. Focusing on your spiritual path isn’t giving up. It’s walking the only path that was ever truly yours. Shadow Work: The Descent Before the Ascent And yet, there’s a hard truth many teachings bypass: You cannot awaken without walking through your shadow. You cannot ascend without first descending. You cannot reach the heavens if you refuse to walk through hell. Your twin flame shows you your divinity, yes. But they also show you your wounds. Your abandonment. Your rage. Your shame. Your need to control. And you need them to do this. This is a path you are walking together. Whether you (and they) realise it. This is not a mistake. This is the initiation. Your twin is the mirror you cannot smash. They take you into the places you would rather avoid, because that is where your freedom lives. You cannot bypass this descent. You cannot love fully if you refuse to meet your fear, your grief, your humanity. To rise, you must first fall. To open to divine love, you must first become honest about all the places you have shut yourself away from it. The True Twin Flame Journey The true twin flame journey is not about chasing someone. It’s not about waiting. It’s not about convincing The Universe to give you a happy ending. It’s about surrendering to the alchemy of your own soul. Trusting that if you walk toward the divine within you, everything meant for you will find you. Union, if it comes, will be a consequence. Not a goal. But no matter what, you will find the thing you were seeking all along: your own wholeness. your own light. your own sacred love. Because that has always been the point. And that is something no one can ever take from you. Practices for Walking the Real Path Forging faith in the divine is not about waiting for the grand miracle. It’s about learning to see the thousands of tiny miracles that unfold every day, if you keep your eyes open and your heart wide. 🌿 Begin by noticing. Look for the small signs: The song that answers your unspoken question. The number sequence that finds you at exactly the right moment. The missing book that returns itself to you when you need it most. The stranger's smile that reminds you you are not alone. These are not accidents. These are the divine speaking in the language of your life. 🌿 Start a “Miracles Journal.” Every evening, jot down the small ways the divine touched your day. It doesn’t have to be dramatic. It only has to be true. Over time, you will see the web that holds you. You will learn that you are never walking alone. And your faith will root itself, not in wishful thinking, but in lived experience. 🌿 Bless the Small Wins. When you notice a small miracle, pause and say, quietly or aloud: "I see you. Thank you." This simple act turns noticing into relationship, and turns hope into trust. 🌿 Feed Your Soul with Learning. You don’t have to find all the answers today. Follow what lights you up. Dive into the rabbit holes of wonder. Don't stop at the twin flame teachings. Go deeper: Read the philosophers. Wander the esoteric teachings. Explore Buddhism, the Tao, tarot, the Bhagavad Gita, the Bible, the mysteries of the new age. Everything you learn will serve to remind you of who you are in truth. Trust your curiosity. It is the divine leading you home. 🌿 Let Go of Deadlines. Spiritual unfolding does not operate on human timetables. If you focus only on the Big Outcome - the twin, the union - you will miss the real unfolding happening in every breath. Faith is not built in the waiting. Faith is built in the living. The true twin flame journey was never about chasing another soul. It was always about awakening the divine within your own being. It was always about remembering you are already love itself. The more you walk toward your own soul, the more life will meet you with grace. Whether that includes union with your twin, no one can say. But what you can  be sure of is this: You will not miss yourself. You will not miss The Divinity within you. And you will not miss the life you were born to live. 🌿 If you are struggling, if you are lost in the ache of it all, know this: You are not alone. I don’t write these words from a distance. I write them because I have walked this path myself. Because I have been broken and rebuilt by it. Because I am now united within my own being. I offer mentorship and twin flame readings. Not to promise outcomes, but to help you unlock the journey within you. To help you walk it with more grace, more courage, and more truth. To remind you that you chose this and you have everything you need within you to walk it with love and in peace, not pain. If you feel called, I would be honoured to walk beside you. Learn more about what I can offer here . 🌿 Read about my experience of The Twin Flame Journey: My Twin Flame Journey: 8 Years On Free Twin Flame Resources If you'd like to explore this journey more deeply, I’ve written a series of essays to help you navigate the big questions that arise - and to support you as you begin the inner work this path asks of you. They ALL encourage you to remember that you are the expert on you and you have everything you need within to walk this path with grace and to a successful destination.   Twin Flame Q&A's | Conversations A note on AI & my writing: I use ChatGPT as a writing assistant—not as a writer. These are my thoughts, ideas, and words, shaped by my lived experience and deep love for self-work, self-awareness, the spiritual journey, and astrology. AI helps me refine, structure, and nudge me toward better phrasing, but the voice you’re reading is mine. I use it as a tool to help me put into words everything I believe is valuable in sharing my insights. Honesty matters to me, and this is simply one way I bring my thoughts to life.

On May 2nd, 2025, Venus meets Neptune at 1 degree of Aries, the third conversation in a long, fated dance that began months ago. And this moment is not fleeting. It is not surface magic. It is foundational . It is the beginning of something radically new , both within us and within the collective field of life itself. The Story So Far When Venus first touched Neptune earlier this year, a dream was seeded. The dream of divine love. Of beauty without condition. Of connection beyond separation. But the second meeting, during Venus’ retrograde, revealed the cracks. Where we had placed fantasy instead of truth, Neptune dissolved the illusions. We saw what was real, and what was never meant to hold. Now, Venus returns. But She is no longer the same. She has passed through the heart of the Sun: an ancient symbol of death and rebirth. She has been stripped down to Her essence. She returns as Morning Star : radiant, raw, ready. And now, standing at the threshold of Aries, She meets Neptune again. This is not a meeting of fantasy. This is a sacred union : of the love we know on Earth and the love we remember from the stars. Of body and spirit. Of human longing and divine fulfilment. Venus and Neptune: The Two Faces of Love Venus is our experience of love here , in bodies, in relationships, in the ache and beauty of being human. Venus is the hand we reach for, the kiss we remember, the life we dare to build with another. Neptune is the divine source of love: the ocean we come from and will return to. It is the love that has no beginning and no end. The love that underpins all creation. The love that knows no fear, no separation, no other. In this world, we have often lived with a fracture between these two loves. We have dreamt of divine love but struggled to embody it. We have chased it, projected it, lost ourselves trying to reclaim what we forgot was already inside us. But what if the fracture is healing? What if, in this moment, the bridge is being built ? The Collective Turning Point We are standing at a threshold: not just personally, but collectively. Venus  in Aries reminds us: we must fight  for love now. Not passive, not waiting, not hoping someone else will do it for us. Neptune  at the Aries Point signals: divine love is no longer an unreachable dream. It is entering the collective field of action, identity, and choice. The sacred marriage. Of divine love and embodied life. Is not just possible. It is happening . We are no longer being asked to transcend this life in search of God. We are being asked to bring God here , into our hands, our homes, our bodies, our loves. As Yogi That writes in Don't Look Down , divine love isn't outside us. It resides within us , accessible through the very pathways of our own bodies. We are wired for connection: not as fantasy, but as living, breathing, holy truth . "I can see myself as a Divine being of Light. It's a perception I came upon during my practice, many times I would enter and allow the warm golden light to bathe over me, I would sit and feel. Dissolving myself until I was only the awareness of the purity within and the connection to the whole." - Yogi That This Venus-Neptune moment is the gateway. If we have learned from the burning. If we have let go of the illusions. If we are willing to love with our eyes open and our hearts unguarded. This is not a fantasy anymore. This is the sacred choice. To honour the love we are made of. To embody it in how we live, how we love, how we stand with and for each other. To claim sacred love: not as a perfect, untouchable ideal, but as a messy, magnificent, embodied reality. This is the hieros gamos . The sacred union. Reaching the Earth. And it asks for your courage. It asks for your presence. It asks for your devotion. Because sacred love, once found, is not something to drift into. It is something to fight for. It is something to live for. It is something to build. With trembling hands and blazing hearts. This is the beginning of the new world. Not the world built on illusion, performance, or fear. But the world built on truth, devotion, and the sacred fire of real love. We are not waiting for heaven anymore. We are bringing it here. And it begins, now . Read more about my own relationship with Doubt and Trust and The Twin Flame Journey: A Sceptic’s Awakening: Learning to Trust the Unseen My Twin Flame Journey: 8 Years On A note on AI & my writing: I use ChatGPT as a writing assistant—not as a writer. These are my thoughts, ideas, and words, shaped by my lived experience and deep love for self-work, self-awareness, the spiritual journey, and astrology. AI helps me refine, structure, and nudge me toward better phrasing, but the voice you’re reading is mine. I use it as a tool to help me put into words everything I believe is valuable in sharing my insights. Honesty matters to me, and this is simply one way I bring my thoughts to life.

There’s something quietly terrifying about being fully you. Not the version of you who’s still “working on things,” still in the process, still on the way. But the you who is already enough. The you who has done the work, made the changes, stepped through fire, and come out the other side—transformed. And yet, there’s a hesitation. A part of you that holds back, as if stepping fully into yourself will expose you, leave you unmoored, force you to confront just how much you’ve actually grown. It’s easier to stay in the safety of “almost ready.” Because if you step into wholeness, what then? The truth is, you are ready. But there’s a part of you that’s afraid to claim it. Afraid of what happens when the struggle isn’t necessary anymore. The Bigger Illusion: The Need for Struggle You’ve spent so much of your life fighting. Clawing your way through hardship. Proving yourself, again and again. Somewhere along the way, you made struggle a companion, a constant measure of your worth. Because if you’re struggling, at least you know you’re doing something. If you’re working, fixing, healing, then maybe, just maybe, you’ll finally feel like you deserve happiness. But what if that was never the way? What if the arrival wasn’t something you had to earn through suffering, but something that was waiting for you to simply accept it? What if you were already worthy? Already whole? There’s a deeply ingrained fear that if life were suddenly easy—if love, abundance, and joy just arrived—you wouldn’t know what to do with them. That’s the fear speaking. The old story whispering that you can’t have good things without a price. But you don’t have to listen to that voice anymore. The Fear of Success and Abundance It sounds strange, but success—true success, in love, in self-worth, in life—can feel like a threat. Because stepping into that means leaving behind everything that once defined you. Who are you if you’re no longer struggling? If you no longer need to prove yourself? If you simply are—loved, abundant, whole? It means owning your life. Owning your choices. Owning your power. And that, in itself, can feel overwhelming. Because success demands that you show up fully. That you let yourself be seen. And that’s where the final block comes in. The Perfectionism That Keeps You Stuck You might not call yourself a perfectionist, but perfectionism has a sneaky way of disguising itself as self-improvement. It whispers, Just a little more healing. A little more work. A little more time. It keeps you in a loop of waiting—waiting for the moment when you’ll feel “ready.” But what if that moment never comes? What if you stopped trying to fix yourself and accepted that nothing was ever broken in the first place? What if you let yourself take up space, just as you are? The Next Step: Owning Your Power, No Apologies The time for waiting is over. You don’t need another sign. Another moment of proof. Another excuse to stay small. You are already the person you’ve been waiting to become. So step forward. Let yourself be seen. Let yourself be whole. Yes, it feels vulnerable. Yes, it feels uncertain. But the only thing left to do now is trust yourself enough to step into the life that is already yours. There is nothing left to fix. It’s time to start living. Are you ready? Because the truth is—you always have been. 💗 Read about how my Twin Flame Journey has felt: My Twin Flame Journey: 8 Years On 🦉 Work With Me Twin Flame Journey Readings & Mentorship What qualifies me to support you on your Twin Flame Journey? The Twin Flame journey is deeply personal and transformative, and I've been consciously navigating this path since 2017. For me, it has been a powerful experience of intentional growth and soulful commitment. I've done the inner work, and today, I live in a space of peace, self-love, and authenticity. My journey evolved beyond the expectation of a physical relationship with my twin as the ultimate goal. Instead, it has taught me that the real purpose of this experience is self-discovery—becoming my truest, most empowered self. I've reached a place of acceptance, trusting that whatever unfolds is perfectly aligned with my highest good. This clarity and peace is what I wish to share with you. If you're navigating your own twin flame experience and find yourself struggling, please know you’re not alone. I've been exactly where you are. My goal is to guide you toward trust in yourself and the process, helping you release expectations and embrace the magic of your own unfolding. My Intention for Our Work Together My intention is to empower you on your Twin Flame journey so you can experience its profound magic in your everyday life. This path, when approached consciously, is not about struggle—it's about discovering your true essence and reclaiming your power. You chose this path. You have everything within you already to navigate it gracefully. My role is to help unlock deeper insights into who you truly are, guiding you toward authentic self-expression and reminding you that you are the universe experiencing itself. Twin Flame Journey Reading: A Conversation with The Gods The Twin Flame journey isn't just about another person—it's about remembering your soul’s truth. Your astrological birth chart holds a sacred blueprint revealing your soul’s path, lessons, and the love you're here to embody. This reading will help you navigate your journey with clarity and confidence, focused on your transformation. Together, we’ll unlock a deeper understanding of your unique soul story and empower you to step fully into your authenticity. What You'll Gain from Your Reading: ✨ Insight into your soul’s blueprint—the deeper themes and lessons of your Twin Flame path. 🌱 Understanding of blocks and patterns that may be hindering your alignment and ease. 🔮 Guidance on moving through challenges with grace, clarity, and self-awareness. 💫 Insights into relationship dynamics and past experiences influencing your journey. ❤️ Compassionate, heart-centred guidance from someone who deeply understands and shares your experience. Every reading is personalized, intuitive, and focused on what you most need to hear right now. Reading Details: 🕰 Duration:  90 minutes 💰 Cost:  £144 📍 Information Required:  Date, time, and place of birth (Contact me if your birth time is uncertain). 📜 Birth Chart:  Digital image available upon request at booking. What I Can and Can’t Do: ✅ I Can: Interpret your birth chart compassionately and insightfully. Offer understanding and wisdom based on personal experience. Use astrology to empower your clarity and confidence. ❌ I Can't: Confirm your Twin Flame status. Identify your Twin Flame. Predict union timing. Analyse your twin's chart without their consent. This reading is about your empowerment, your truth, and your transformation. The answers you seek are already within you—let’s uncover them together. 📖 [Book your reading online today.] 1:1 Twin Flame Mentoring & Support: A conversation with someone who's been there and cares deeply about what you're experiencing. The Twin Flame journey isn't about waiting, chasing, or fixing someone else—it's about you. It’s about stepping into your power, embracing your authenticity, and creating a life that feels whole and aligned right now. I’ve consciously walked this path for over seven years, experiencing both its challenges and its incredible gifts. This mentoring session offers a safe, supportive space where you can gain clarity and guidance from someone who truly understands your journey. What You'll Gain from Your Mentoring Session: ✨ Insight into your current stage on the Twin Flame path, exploring themes and challenges. 🌱 Understanding and working through emotional blocks, fears, and repetitive patterns. 🔮 Higher perspective insights to make sense of your current experiences. 💫 Practical steps to move forward with peace, confidence, and alignment. ❤️ Compassionate support from someone who has walked your path. Mentoring Options: Single 1-to-1 Session: 🕰 Duration: 60 minutes 💰 Cost: £55 📍 Where: Online via Zoom 📝 What You Need: Just yourself and an open heart Monthly 1-to-1 Mentorship: 🕰 One 1-to-1 session per month (approximately an hour, with flexibility) 💬 One month's message support via WhatsApp/Messenger 💰 Cost: £111 📍 Where: Online via Zoom and messaging app of your choice 📝 What You Need: Just yourself and an open heart. What I Can and Can’t Do: ✅ I Can: Hold compassionate space for your journey and provide experienced guidance. Help you navigate your path with greater ease and clarity. Support your personal transformation and return the focus to yourself. ❌ I Can't: Confirm whether you're a Twin Flame. Predict union timing or outcomes. Do your inner work for you (but I'll be right beside you as you do it). This journey doesn’t have to be painful or defined by waiting. You can navigate it with grace, purpose, and profound self-love. If you're ready, I'm here to support you. 📖 [Book your reading or mentoring session online today.] A note on AI & my writing: I use ChatGPT as a writing assistant—not as a writer. These are my thoughts, ideas, and words, shaped by my lived experience and deep love for self-work, self-awareness, the spiritual journey, and astrology. AI helps me refine, structure, and occasionally nudge me toward better phrasing, but the voice you’re reading is mine. I use it as a tool to help me put into words everything I believe is valuable in sharing my insights. Honesty matters to me, and this is simply one way I bring my thoughts to life. Free Twin Flame Resources If you'd like to explore this journey more deeply, I’ve written a series of essays to help you navigate the big questions that arise - and to support you as you begin the inner work this path asks of you. They ALL encourage you to remember that you are the expert on you and you have everything you need within to walk this path with grace and to a successful destination.   Twin Flame Q&A's | Conversations

The Twin Flame journey is one of profound transformation, love, and self-discovery. Every connection, whether it ultimately aligns with the label of twin flame or not, serves a purpose in our growth. Rather than worrying whether you are a twin flame or not ( read more on that here ), just remember the true value of this journey lies in the lessons we learn, the healing we undergo, and the love we cultivate within ourselves. No one else can define your journey for you. This path is meant to be experienced uniquely by each individual. If you are drawn to it, then it holds meaning for you. If you are experiencing the deep shifts and awakenings that are characteristic of twin flames, then your experience is valid. And this work applies to you. You're here for a reason and will benefit from the direction the journey is pushing you in. Trust Your Inner Guidance If you feel drawn to reach out to your twin, trust your own inner guidance. This journey is uniquely yours. If reaching out brings challenges, these are the necessary wake-up calls designed to shift you from illusion into the next phase of your evolution. Even if your twin isn't interested right now, it simply means you still have healing and growth ahead. Nothing is ever truly lost; it's just not the right time. Challenging the Limiting Belief of Union Believing that union isn't possible is itself a limiting belief. For some, union may not currently be their reality, and for a time I also embraced this narrative because I had lost faith. But deep down, this belief stems from a wound—an expression of low self-esteem. If you truly had the option of being with your twin, you would say yes. Choosing otherwise because you think it's not possible reveals a wound to be healed. Remember, there are no real limitations beyond the ones you impose on yourself. Limiting beliefs become self-fulfilling prophecies. If you believe union is impossible, that will become your reality. But if you believe in the transformative potential of this journey leading you toward wholeness and reunion, you pave the way for that possibility. Few twin flames may have achieved union yet, but why not be among the first? The future is unwritten, and the twin flame journey exists to break old patterns, not reinforce them. Your Unique Path Each twin flame journey is entirely personal—your healing, lessons, and transformations are uniquely your own. There is no one-size-fits-all path. The barriers you break—whether age differences, religious beliefs, cultural backgrounds, or spiritual understandings—are specific to you. Other people's experiences can serve as inspiration or cautionary tales, but they are not blueprints for your own path. Comparison is counterproductive because your mission is to discover your truth, not emulate someone else’s. Unity Through Integration This journey is fundamentally about love and integration. Unity is the result of the deep inner work prompted by the twin flame connection. The notion that spirituality and psychology are separate is precisely what this journey seeks to dissolve. We are all fragmented to some degree; integrating these fragments—acknowledged by systems such as Internal Family Systems, teachings from Teal Swan, Carl Jung’s individuation, and George Gurdjieff’s self-awareness—is the path toward true wholeness. Your wounds are not meant to be transcended but integrated. True union occurs through healing and reclaiming the fragmented parts of yourself. The twin flame journey does not encourage bypassing your humanity—it demands fully embracing and integrating it. My Personal Experience In my own experience, after eight years on this path filled with growth, healing, and profound transformation, my desire for my twin remains. This desire does not diminish through healing; rather, it is refined and balanced. This journey does not deny our human desires—it brings them into alignment and balance. Wholeness is the Goal The twin flame path is ultimately about integration and wholeness. It is about dissolving separation, acknowledging and healing our wounds, and stepping fully into the truth of who we are. This is the path to union—not by rejecting our humanity, but by embracing it fully. 💗 Read more about my experience of The Twin Flame Journey: My Twin Flame Journey: 8 Years On 🦉 Work With Me Twin Flame Journey Readings & Mentorship What qualifies me to support you on your Twin Flame Journey? The Twin Flame journey is deeply personal and transformative, and I've been consciously navigating this path since 2017. For me, it has been a powerful experience of intentional growth and soulful commitment. I've done the inner work, and today, I live in a space of peace, self-love, and authenticity. My journey evolved beyond the expectation of a physical relationship with my twin as the ultimate goal. Instead, it has taught me that the real purpose of this experience is self-discovery—becoming my truest, most empowered self. I've reached a place of acceptance, trusting that whatever unfolds is perfectly aligned with my highest good. This clarity and peace is what I wish to share with you. If you're navigating your own twin flame experience and find yourself struggling, please know you’re not alone. I've been exactly where you are. My goal is to guide you toward trust in yourself and the process, helping you release expectations and embrace the magic of your own unfolding. My Intention for Our Work Together My intention is to empower you on your Twin Flame journey so you can experience its profound magic in your everyday life. This path, when approached consciously, is not about struggle—it's about discovering your true essence and reclaiming your power. You chose this path. You have everything within you already to navigate it gracefully. My role is to help unlock deeper insights into who you truly are, guiding you toward authentic self-expression and reminding you that you are the universe experiencing itself. Twin Flame Journey Reading: A Conversation with The Gods The Twin Flame journey isn't just about another person—it's about remembering your soul’s truth. Your astrological birth chart holds a sacred blueprint revealing your soul’s path, lessons, and the love you're here to embody. This reading will help you navigate your journey with clarity and confidence, focused on your transformation. Together, we’ll unlock a deeper understanding of your unique soul story and empower you to step fully into your authenticity. What You'll Gain from Your Reading: ✨ Insight into your soul’s blueprint—the deeper themes and lessons of your Twin Flame path. 🌱 Understanding of blocks and patterns that may be hindering your alignment and ease. 🔮 Guidance on moving through challenges with grace, clarity, and self-awareness. 💫 Insights into relationship dynamics and past experiences influencing your journey. ❤️ Compassionate, heart-centred guidance from someone who deeply understands and shares your experience. Every reading is personalized, intuitive, and focused on what you most need to hear right now. Reading Details: 🕰 Duration:  90 minutes 💰 Cost:  £144 📍 Information Required:  Date, time, and place of birth (Contact me if your birth time is uncertain). 📜 Birth Chart:  Digital image available upon request at booking. What I Can and Can’t Do: ✅ I Can: Interpret your birth chart compassionately and insightfully. Offer understanding and wisdom based on personal experience. Use astrology to empower your clarity and confidence. ❌ I Can't: Confirm your Twin Flame status. Identify your Twin Flame. Predict union timing. Analyse your twin's chart without their consent. This reading is about your empowerment, your truth, and your transformation. The answers you seek are already within you—let’s uncover them together. 📖 [Book your reading online today.] 1:1 Twin Flame Mentoring & Support: A conversation with someone who's been there and cares deeply about what you're experiencing. The Twin Flame journey isn't about waiting, chasing, or fixing someone else—it's about you. It’s about stepping into your power, embracing your authenticity, and creating a life that feels whole and aligned right now. I’ve consciously walked this path for over seven years, experiencing both its challenges and its incredible gifts. This mentoring session offers a safe, supportive space where you can gain clarity and guidance from someone who truly understands your journey. What You'll Gain from Your Mentoring Session: ✨ Insight into your current stage on the Twin Flame path, exploring themes and challenges. 🌱 Understanding and working through emotional blocks, fears, and repetitive patterns. 🔮 Higher perspective insights to make sense of your current experiences. 💫 Practical steps to move forward with peace, confidence, and alignment. ❤️ Compassionate support from someone who has walked your path. Mentoring Options: Single 1-to-1 Session: 🕰 Duration: 60 minutes 💰 Cost: £55 📍 Where: Online via Zoom 📝 What You Need: Just yourself and an open heart Monthly 1-to-1 Mentorship: 🕰 One 1-to-1 session per month (approximately an hour, with flexibility) 💬 One month's message support via WhatsApp/Messenger 💰 Cost: £111 📍 Where: Online via Zoom and messaging app of your choice 📝 What You Need: Just yourself and an open heart. What I Can and Can’t Do: ✅ I Can: Hold compassionate space for your journey and provide experienced guidance. Help you navigate your path with greater ease and clarity. Support your personal transformation and return the focus to yourself. ❌ I Can't: Confirm whether you're a Twin Flame. Predict union timing or outcomes. Do your inner work for you (but I'll be right beside you as you do it). This journey doesn’t have to be painful or defined by waiting. You can navigate it with grace, purpose, and profound self-love. If you're ready, I'm here to support you. 📖 [Book your reading or mentoring session online today.] A note on AI & my writing: I use ChatGPT as a writing assistant—not as a writer. These are my thoughts, ideas, and words, shaped by my lived experience and deep love for self-work, self-awareness, the spiritual journey, and astrology. AI helps me refine, structure, and nudge me toward better phrasing, but the voice you’re reading is mine. I use it as a tool to help me put into words everything I believe is valuable in sharing my insights. Honesty matters to me, and this is simply one way I bring my thoughts to life.   Free Twin Flame Resources If you'd like to explore this journey more deeply, I’ve written a series of essays to help you navigate the big questions that arise - and to support you as you begin the inner work this path asks of you. They ALL encourage you to remember that you are the expert on you and you have everything you need within to walk this path with grace and to a successful destination.   Twin Flame Q&A's | Conversations

Twin Flames: A Journey of Self-Discovery This is our heroes journey The Mirror Effect: A Loving Reflection The twin flame journey is one of deep self-awareness. Your twin reflects back to you all that is beautiful, loving, and full of potential within you - but also the parts of you that need care, healing, and attention. This is not a journey about fixing yourself to be worthy of love. You are already worthy. You deserve love exactly as you are. Rather than striving to become ‘better,’ this path is about recognising what you are creating in your life. If you don’t like what is showing up, you have the power to shift it. Your twin simply highlights the places where more self-love and alignment are needed. Walking Your Own Path The stories and challenges you’ve faced before meeting your twin are not coincidences. They’ve shaped you, prepared you. And now, this connection is asking you to look even deeper. You are not being tested. You are being invited, to know yourself fully and step into the life and love you desire. Sometimes, one twin becomes aware of the connection before the other. If you feel alone in this, know that you are never truly alone. The love you feel is real, but it starts within. This journey will guide you back to yourself, to wholeness, and to a love that is steady, unshaken by circumstance. A Loving Invitation This journey is yours. Trust that you have everything you need. You are not broken. There is no secret knowledge to uncover, no guru who holds the answers. The answers are within you. Your heart knows the way. Ask the Universe for guidance, and take the steps that feel right. Twin Flame Journey Essentials Honour Your Truth  – Your experience is unique. Trust yourself. Focus on You  – What is this experience showing you about yourself? Choose Love  – Love is already here. It is within you. Let it flow. The Mirror: A Guide to Self-Awareness Your twin reflects back to you what you are creating. Ask yourself: Does my life feel the way I want it to? Am I attracting the kind of love I desire? If not, what beliefs, fears, or patterns might be influencing my reality? The process unfolds naturally. There is no rush, no pressure. Be gentle with yourself. Follow what feels good, what brings you peace. Gratitude, self-love, and trust will light your way. You are exactly where you need to be. Self-Reflection Prompts What emotions are coming up for me? What patterns do I see in my relationships? What does my current reality say about what I believe about love? Can I offer myself more acceptance and kindness today? Inner Union: Returning to Yourself Healing is not about changing who you are. It is about recognizing all of yourself with love. We all carry many layers within us - our strengths, our fears, our tenderness, and our fire. When we embrace all of these parts, we become whole. And from that place, we create a life and love that reflect our truth. You are already enough. You are already loved. Let that be your foundation. Practical Tools to Support Your Journey This journey is deeply personal, but there are tools that can support you along the way. These practices help cultivate self-awareness, healing, and alignment with the love you desire. Self-Awareness & Healing Journaling  – Write down your thoughts and feelings to gain clarity on patterns and emotions. Meditation & Mindfulness  – Create space for self-reflection and inner peace. Mirror Work  – Look into your own eyes and affirm your worth and loveability. Shadow Work  – Recognize and heal old wounds that may be influencing your relationships. Energy Healing  – Practices like Reiki, EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), or chakra balancing can help clear emotional blocks. Conscious Creation & Alignment Visualization  – Imagine and feel the reality you want to create. Affirmations  – Reprogram your mind with positive, self-affirming beliefs. Intention Setting  – Choose how you want to show up and what you want to attract. Gratitude Practice  – Shift your focus toward appreciation and abundance. Navigating the Relationship Dynamic Effective Communication  – Speak your truth with clarity and listen deeply. Boundary Setting  – Honor your needs and respect those of others. Mutual Support & Growth  – Focus on your own journey while allowing space for the other person’s path. Therapeutic Support  – A therapist, coach, or spiritual guide can offer additional insight and healing. Integration & Wholeness Inner Child Work  – Reconnect with younger parts of yourself that need love and healing. Body Awareness & Movement  – Engage in yoga, dance, or breathwork to process emotions. Creative Expression  – Express yourself through art, music, or writing. Tapping Into Inner Wisdom Meditation & Breathwork  – Connect with your intuition and higher guidance. Dream Journaling  – Record dreams and synchronicities for deeper insight. Oracle & Tarot Readings  – Use tools to clarify messages from your higher self. Nature Connection  – Spend time outdoors to ground and centre yourself. Moving Forward There is no ‘right’ way to navigate this journey - only what resonates with you. Try different tools, trust your intuition, and allow the process to unfold naturally. You are exactly where you need to be. Everything you need is already within you. You are worthy of love. You are whole. Walk forward with trust. 💗 Read my experience of The Work on The Twin Flame Journey conversationswiththegods.com/story/my-twin-flame-journey-8-years-on If you’d like support on your journey, I offer mentorship and astrology readings to help you navigate your twin flame connection and personal growth. Whether you need clarity, guidance, or simply someone to hold space for your experience, I’m here to help. Reach out if you feel called to work together. 💗 A note on AI & my writing: I use ChatGPT as a writing assistant—not as a writer. These are my thoughts, ideas, and words, shaped by my lived experience and deep love for self-work, self-awareness, the spiritual journey, and astrology. AI helps me refine, structure, and occasionally nudge me toward better phrasing, but the voice you’re reading is mine. I use it as a tool to help me put into words everything I believe is valuable in sharing my insights. Honesty matters to me, and this is simply one way I bring my thoughts to life.

For anyone who has stepped a toe into the world of spiritual practice or is on a quest to better themselves, there is always a lot of talk about doing 'the work', but what is 'the work' and how do you 'do' it? work NOUN activity involving mental or physical effort done in order to achieve a purpose or result: "he was tired after a day's work" · "work is still going on in fitting out a new store" SIMILAR: labour toil exertion effort drudgery industry In this case the 'work' is applied to the self and to the act of 'becoming one's true self'. It's helpful to bring in Carl Jung and his concept of individuation.... The Alchemy of Becoming: The Self-Work Work. A word that tastes of sweat and long hours, of hands worn raw against the edges of effort. A thing done to survive, to build, to create. But what of the work done within? The chiselling away of falsehoods, the excavation of wounds, the slow, deliberate art of becoming? That work - the work of the soul - is the most relentless, the most profound. It asks everything of you. It is Carl Jung’s great opus: individuation, the painstaking process of becoming whole. It is grief and liberation. It is meeting yourself, fully, without flinching. But why do it? Because without it, you live at the mercy of the past. Because healing isn't just about relief - it’s about reclamation. It’s about stepping into life with clarity, with wholeness. To love without losing yourself. To live without the weight of what was dictating what will be. And for those walking the path of twin flames, self-work is not a luxury; it is a necessity. Self-work isn’t optional - it’s the foundation. The relationship itself, whether close or distant (in union or in separation), is only the mirror. And so, if you are willing, if you are brave, here is a map. But know this: the journey is not linear . You will return to these steps again and again, each time peeling back another layer, each time meeting a deeper version of yourself. A note:  This is written from my experience - the journey I have walked and what I have learned along the way. My path is unique to me, just as yours is unique to you. If this doesn’t resonate, move on. Find your own way. We are all here to learn discernment, and we each process in different ways. This isn’t about following my truth - it’s about remembering that you have the wisdom within you to lead yourself to where you need to go. Don’t take my word for it. Listen to yourself. This is simply here in case it helps, in case it gives you a few clues of where to start and what to do. The Steps Step 1: Acknowledge the Need for Healing The wound is where the light enters, says Rumi. But first, you must see the wound. Strip away the distraction, the denial, the stories told to numb the ache. What hurts? Where do you shrink? Where do you rage? This is your starting point. Step 2: Peel Back the Layers You are not who you were told to be. You are not your trauma. You are not the sum of the wounds you have endured. So peel back the layers - the conditioned responses, the inherited fears, the roles played for acceptance. Who are you beneath the masks? The answer will shake you, but it will also set you free. Step 3: Cultivate Unconditional Love Look into the mirror - not just at your face but into your soul. Love what you see, even when it’s raw, even when it’s ugly. Your twin flame reflects all of it back to you: the divine, the wounded, the hidden. Love yourself through it. This is the hardest thing you will ever do. Step 4: Illuminate the Shadows Carl Jung whispered, "Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate." So bring a lantern. Find the ghosts pulling your strings. Uncover the grief left unattended, the desires you were told to repress, the patterns keeping you small. Name them. Own them. Integrate them. This is how you stop running in circles. And don’t just look in your mind - look in your body. The body holds what the mind forgets. If you can’t name the wound, look for it in your shoulders, in your gut, in the tension behind your ribs. Breathe into it. Let it speak. Step 5: Transformative Reflection Nothing changes without witness. Watch yourself grow. Acknowledge the places where old wounds no longer dictate your choices. Celebrate the moments when you choose differently, speak truthfully, stand unshaken. Take note: this is becoming. Step 6: Reveal Your Pure Self Vulnerability is the bravest act of all. To stand unguarded, unpolished, unafraid of rejection—that is power. Let yourself be seen. Not the version curated for approval, but the real, messy, magnificent you. Step 7: Dive into Unconditional Love It is not a destination. It is a practice. Loving yourself without condition, without pretence. Loving your twin flame not as possession, but as a soul walking beside you. Releasing expectations. Releasing control. Loving for the sake of love itself. Step 8: Embrace Fearless Communication Say what you mean. Say it with kindness, with courage, with the certainty that your truth matters. Fearless communication does not mean harshness; it means honesty, spoken from the heart, without attachment to the response. Step 9: Learn from Every Experience Life is the teacher, and every moment is a lesson. Each challenge is an invitation to deepen, to refine, to realign. What did this heartbreak teach you? What did this longing reveal? What did this silence say? Listen closely, the answers are already there. Step 10: Lead Back to the Truth There is no final step. No moment where you ‘arrive.’ You are not a finished product; you are an unfolding. You will always be unravelling and rebuilding, remembering and forgetting, losing yourself and finding yourself again. But healing isn’t just about breaking things down - it’s about weaving yourself back together. It’s about integration. About stepping into life as the person you’ve fought to become. Return to yourself. Again and again and again. This is the work. This is the way. And so, you walk forward. With open eyes, with steady hands, with a heart willing to burn for its own liberation. The work is not easy. But then, nothing worth becoming ever is. Know Thyself Through the Birth Chart: A Map to Your Deepest Self Carl Jung analysed birth charts to gain deeper insight into the unconscious patterns of his clients, using astrology as a symbolic tool alongside his psychological work. Like Jung, I use the birth chart to uncover the deeper layers of the self - your shadow, your strengths, your purpose, and the hidden stories shaping your life. What I Offer: When you come to me for a birth chart reading, we embark on a journey to meet the real you  - beyond conditioning, beyond what others have told you to be. Through the lens of astrology, we can explore: ✨ Your Shadow  – The hidden aspects of yourself, the wounds that need healing, and the parts of you that long to be integrated. Your birth chart reveals your unconscious patterns, where you self-sabotage, what you repress, and where you project onto others. Through awareness, these shadows can become sources of power. ✨ Your Purpose  – Why are you here? Your chart holds clues to your soul’s mission, the lessons you are meant to learn, and the gifts you are meant to offer. We look at your North Node, your Midheaven, and the unique interplay of planetary energies that guide your life’s path. ✨ Your Strengths & Weaknesses  – Every birth chart is a dynamic balance of strengths and challenges. I help you understand what you naturally excel at and where your growing edges are. Instead of fighting yourself, you learn to work with  your nature. ✨ Your Stories & Patterns  – The chart shows the narratives that have shaped your life - ancestral, karmic, and personal. We uncover the stories that run beneath the surface, so you can decide whether they still serve you or if it’s time to rewrite them. Why This Matters Knowing yourself is not just an intellectual exercise, it’s a transformative process. When you understand your inner workings, you stop repeating old cycles unconsciously. You step into awareness, choice, and alignment. Astrology doesn’t tell you who  you are - it shows you the blueprint. You  are the one who gets to build the life you want. My role is to help you read the map, decode the signs, and see yourself clearly, so you can navigate your journey with wisdom and intention. Work With Me If you are ready to see yourself in a new way - beyond surface-level astrology, beyond generic horoscopes - let’s go deep. A birth chart reading with me is not just about planets and signs; it’s about you  - your life, your patterns, your purpose. Let’s unlock the truth that has always been within you. Are you ready to meet yourself? 📍 Book a birth chart reading  – In-person or Zoom. 📅 Availability: In-person :  Occasional Saturdays & Thursday evenings at Essential Therapies . Zoom :  Tuesday, Wednesday, and Saturday evenings. 🦋 A note on AI & my writing: I use ChatGPT as a writing assistant—not as a writer. These are my thoughts, ideas, and words, shaped by my lived experience and deep love for self-work, self-awareness, the spiritual journey, and astrology. AI helps me refine, structure, and occasionally nudge me toward better phrasing, but the voice you’re reading is mine. I use it as a tool to help me put into words everything I believe is valuable in sharing my insights. Honesty matters to me, and this is simply one way I bring my thoughts to life.

When someone we care about is silent, when we reach out and hear nothing back, it can feel like a punch to the gut. The mind spins stories - Did I do something wrong? Do they not care? Am I unworthy of a response?   It’s bloody painful, and it’s easy to get lost in that pain, to feel like the silence is a verdict on our worth. But what if we looked at it differently? What if this silence isn’t about them, but about us? About what it’s bringing up within us? The truth is, moments like these are mirrors . They don’t create wounds, they reveal them. That ache in your chest, that familiar feeling of being dismissed or unseen, isn’t just about this person. It’s something older, something deeper. For many of us, this pain is tied to the way we learned love as children. Maybe love felt like something we had to earn, through being good, through being useful, through holding back our true needs and emotions. Maybe we learned that being ignored meant we weren’t enough. And now, when someone’s silence presses on that old wound, it feels unbearable. But here’s where the real work begins. Instead of chasing the person who isn’t responding, instead of making their silence mean something about our worth, we can turn inward and ask: What does this remind me of? Where have I felt this before? What belief about myself is this bringing to the surface? When we get honest with ourselves, we start to see the deeper layers. We see that our pain isn’t just about this one person, it’s about all the times we’ve felt unseen, unheard, unchosen. And that means the healing isn’t about them. It’s about us. So what do we do? We sit with the feelings instead of running from them. We breathe through the discomfort, letting ourselves feel it fully, without judgment. We remind ourselves: I am worthy of love and care, whether or not this person gives it to me. We reparent ourselves. If a younger part of us is crying out, we hold that part close. We speak to ourselves the way we wish someone had spoken to us when we were small: You are loved. You are enough. I see you. I will not abandon you. We take our power back. Instead of fixating on the one person who isn’t showing up, we turn our attention to those who do. We show up for ourselves. We pour into the friendships, the passions, the parts of life that nourish us. And in doing so, we shift. We rewrite the story. We stop waiting for someone else to prove our worth to us, because we already know it. Silence hurts. But it can also be a gift. It can show us where we’re still seeking external validation, where we’re still handing over our power. And if we let it, it can lead us home—to ourselves. So if you’re struggling with someone’s silence right now, know this: It does not define you. It does not make you unworthy. This is your moment to heal, to hold yourself with love, and to remember: you have always been enough . 💗 Read my experience of The Twin Flame Journey My Twin Flame Journey: 8 Years On Need some support? Read more here . Free Twin Flame Resources If you'd like to explore this journey more deeply, I’ve written a series of essays to help you navigate the big questions that arise - and to support you as you begin the inner work this path asks of you. They ALL encourage you to remember that you are the expert on you and you have everything you need within to walk this path with grace and to a successful destination.   Twin Flame Q&A's | Conversations A note on AI & my writing: I use ChatGPT as a writing assistant—not as a writer. These are my thoughts, ideas, and words, shaped by my lived experience and deep love for self-work, self-awareness, the spiritual journey, and astrology. AI helps me refine, structure, and nudge me toward better phrasing, but the voice you’re reading is mine. I use it as a tool to help me put into words everything I believe is valuable in sharing my insights. Honesty matters to me, and this is simply one way I bring my thoughts to life.

Choosing You on The Twin Flame Journey   One of the hardest truths on The Twin Flame Journey is the pain of unrequited love, or at least, that’s how it seems on the surface. In the 3D, we pour love into someone who doesn’t appear to return it. We wait. We hope. We analyse their every move, searching for signs that they feel the same. We believe they are supposed to love us endlessly and magnificently; after all, they are our beloved. And yet, here we are – still watching them run while we try hard not to chase.   Why?   Because deep down, we have a wound. A self-worth wound. We have created a reality where the one person we love most does not love us back. But this is not because we are unlovable. It is because we have not yet learned to love ourselves  the way we long to be loved.   The twin flame connection forces us to face this. It demands that we stop looking outward for validation and turn within. The truth is, we do not need their love to complete us; we need our own . Until we heal the self-worth wound, reciprocity will always feel out of reach, because we are not yet giving to ourselves what we crave from them.   We spend so much energy wondering what they are thinking, when they will wake up, when they will return, when they will stop running. But the real question is: when will we  stop running from ourselves? When will we stop abandoning our own needs? When will we realise that their behaviour is simply reflecting our own patterns; our   lack of self-love, our conditioning, our fears?   The way forward is not through them. It never was. The way forward is within . We must learn to sit with our discomfort, to hold space for our own emotions, to honour our own desires. We must do for ourselves  what we wish they would do for us.   We deserve someone who makes plans with us, responds to our messages, wants to know us deeply, invests in us, cares about how we feel. But before we can receive that from another, we must first embody it for ourselves. That is the lesson. That is the transformation.   So, choose reciprocity. Choose alignment. Choose you .   Because when you do, everything changes. 💗 Read about my Twin Flame Journey: My Twin Flame Journey: 8 Years On If you’re finding that this journey is especially difficult, and you’re yearning for more support along the way, I want you to know that I’ve walked this path too. As a twin flame myself, I understand the deep highs and crushing lows of this experience. In addition to my work as an astrologer, I offer a Twin Flame Journey Mentorship, where we can explore your personal journey together, or a Twin Flame Astrology Reading to help you understand the cosmic dynamics at play. I know there’s a lot of mistrust in this space. Too many people take advantage of those seeking answers. That’s not what I’m here for. I don’t promise union. I don’t claim to have all the answers. Instead  I can offer hard-earned wisdom, real support, and a compassionate space to help you embrace your journey with strength, clarity, and peace. Read more about what I've learned about The Journey here . I’d be honoured to walk beside you in whatever way feels right for you. Remember, you’re not alone. I’m here if you need me. Learn more here. Read more Twin Flame Journey Essays here

The Power Within The Waiting On The Twin Flame Journey We spend so much time waiting for the soul’s deepest longing to come to life, that we forget to honour the love that burns fiercely in the waiting. This love isn’t just a flicker - it’s a blaze that lights our very souls, so powerful it feels like we’re already living the future we’ve dreamed of. But as the months stretch into years, that fire starts to dim. And then the questions come, gnawing at the edges of your heart. What if it never happens? What if all of this - the fated connection, the knowing, the cosmic awakening - was just an illusion? What if they never return? What if they never stop running, never come back as promised? In these moments, you can’t help but feel like you’re trapped in a nightmare that no one else understands. You see the world move on, while you’re stuck in the uncertainty, frozen in time. The fear creeps in - what if this is it? What if this magical, supernatural experience that once lit up your entire reality was nothing more than a cruel tease? What if you’re not worthy of that sacred love, after all? What if that grand, destined love is only for those other people, the ones who seem to find their “one” while you’re left alone in the dark? It feels like the future you thought was promised will never come to pass. The love you’ve imagined for lifetimes feels more like a fairy tale than something that could ever be real. And with each passing day, the doubts deepen. What if there’s no divine partner out there for you? What if the whole idea of a “twin flame” is just a myth, a fantasy cooked up to get you through the pain? What if there is no ‘other half,’ no soulmate, no fated relationship meant to lift you up, no union that will feel like coming home? This uncertainty? It’s brutal . It’s the heart-wrenching weight of permanent disappointment. And it’s suffocating. It wears you down until you question your own worth. You wonder, in the quietest moments, whether there’s something wrong with you - something about you that’s keeping that love away. Are you too broken? Too messed up? Too much? Or, perhaps, not enough? It feels like you’re carrying this enormous weight of hope, of waiting, of longing, while the world keeps moving around you. People around you are meeting their partners, building their futures, while you’re stuck in the void. The promise of union becomes a distant dream, fading further away with every day that passes. The love that once felt so real, so certain, starts to feel like it’s slipping through your fingers. And yet, somehow, you hold on. You hold on to that love - burning, consuming, impossible to let go of - even as you wonder if it’s all for nothing. Because, deep down, part of you still believes. Believes in that love. Believes in the connection. Believes that somehow, some way, the promise of the journey is still meant for you. But as time wears on, it gets harder and harder to keep that belief alive. If you feel this way, I want you to know: you are not alone . For those of us who have walked the path of the twin flame, the journey is anything but clear-cut. It’s a wild, soul-shaking ride, filled with moments of exhilarating clarity and deep, crushing uncertainty. There are times when the vision of the love we’ve held onto for so long feels like the only thing that could finally make us whole, like the missing piece that will fill that space inside. But then, there are other moments when that same vision feels like a weight too heavy to bear, a haunting reminder of something that may never come to pass, leaving us questioning if we’re even worthy of it. It’s the brutal push and pull between what we’ve seen in our hearts and what we’re experiencing in this present moment - a feeling that something fated, something extraordinary is just beyond our grasp, and yet, the distance between us and it feels insurmountable. This feeling? This uncertainty? It cuts deeper than you can imagine. The love that burns so fiercely in your chest, the pull towards this person - this union - isn’t something that can be easily erased or ignored. It is real . Raw. Beautiful. It runs through your veins, down to your very core. It’s not just a passing fantasy, it’s an aching truth. And sometimes, the love that feels like it was written in the stars is the same love that drives you to the brink, leaving you questioning if you’re enough, if this love is truly meant for you, or if it will ever arrive. It’s the ultimate test of faith, and there’s no easy answer. So I’m going to say this to you, as gently and as truthfully as I can: It’s okay to cry . It’s okay to feel all of this - the longing, the fear, the sadness, the frustration. It’s okay to feel like your heart is breaking with the weight of it all. This is not a journey that expects you to be strong at every turn. The pain you feel in wanting something so deeply, and not knowing if it will ever come to fruition, is an ache that transcends all else. It’s okay to not have it all figured out. To not be at peace with it all yet. The uncertainty doesn’t have to be solved today, or tomorrow, or even next week. Right now, it’s enough to just be here, in this space, feeling what you feel. The love you’re carrying - it’s not something you can just switch off. It’s part of you. It is you. And I know it can be overwhelming, to hold so much of this energy and not know when, or if, it will manifest in the way you’ve always imagined. But I want you to hear this: You don’t have to “move on” from it.  You don’t have to abandon it. You don’t have to shove it away because it feels too big or too difficult to carry. What you’re feeling - every bit of it - is valid, and it’s part of your journey. Every tear, every thought, every moment of doubt - it’s all real . And right now, in this space of uncertainty, it’s okay to just be human . It’s okay to sit in the mess, to let yourself grieve, to let yourself feel all of this without guilt. I know it’s hard to see it now, but I promise you this: even in the midst of the pain, there’s power. You are transforming in ways you may not yet understand. There is purpose in this waiting , even if it feels like the hardest thing you’ve ever done. And when you’re ready, when the time is right, you will see that this journey was never just about the destination. It was always about you - about your growth, your healing, your evolution. And that’s something to honour, too. The Heartbreak of the “Not Yet” When we carry the weight of an unfulfilled dream - especially one that feels like it’s been part of us for lifetimes - the longing can be all-consuming. It’s easy to fall into the belief that we’ve done everything right, healed ourselves, transformed, only to find that the one we believe is our destiny hasn’t yet arrived. But here’s the truth we often resist: The journey is never just about the destination. It’s easy to believe that if we haven’t reached that finish line yet, we must be doing something wrong, or that something is missing within us. The pain of not having what we want, what we believe we were promised, can feel suffocating - like it will swallow us whole. But, and this is important: It’s okay to grieve. It’s okay to feel the ache of what hasn’t yet come to pass. There’s no timeline for how long your heart needs to process. Just as love has the capacity to heal, grief has the power to transform. It carves out space for something new, something even beyond what we can imagine right now. You don’t have to feel at peace with it all right now - and that’s okay. Give yourself grace. Allow yourself to sit with the uncertainty, to honour the unfolding of your own soul. There’s no rush to “get over it,” and no expectation to surrender or let go before you’re ready. Let yourself mourn, let yourself cry. Those tears - they’re healing too. Releasing the Grip Without Letting Go One of the greatest challenges on the twin flame journey is finding the balance between holding on to that deep soul connection and fully living in the present moment. We fear that releasing the grip on the future means giving up on the love we desire most. But what if releasing the grip isn’t about letting go of the love itself? What if it’s about releasing the attachment to how that love shows up in your life? Maybe, just maybe, the path of least resistance is allowing space for that love to find you in whatever form it’s meant to take. Perhaps the love you seek isn’t something that will complete you. Instead, it’s a love that will amplify the strength, wisdom, and joy you already possess. A love that will allow you to be fully yourself, without needing to wait for something outside of you to make it all whole. And I don’t want to rush you into “letting go” because this isn’t about that. This is about giving yourself permission to feel everything you need to feel right now. You’ve already done so much healing, so much growing. Even if it doesn’t feel like it, every step has made you stronger, more capable of holding both the love and the pain at once. Embracing the Beauty of the Journey The twin flame journey is messy. It’s painful. It’s transformative. But here’s what I want you to remember: every step you take, every tear you shed, is part of the evolution of your soul. And when you find yourself wondering if it was all for nothing, remind yourself of this: The love you carry is not wrong. The yearning you feel is not a mistake. If that love doesn’t look exactly like you imagined, it’s because you were always meant to become something more than you could have imagined. It’s okay to cry. It’s okay to feel lost. And it’s okay to trust that the universe is unfolding in a way that will one day make sense - even if it doesn’t make sense today. A Loving Reminder I want to remind you of this: Your heart’s desire is not too much to ask for. It’s not a mistake, and it’s not destined to break you - even though it may feel that way sometimes. You are worthy of the love you seek . The waiting? It’s part of the grand story you’re living. Even if the love hasn’t arrived yet, and even if the journey feels unbearably long, know that you are growing into the person who will hold that love when it arrives. Take this one step at a time. It’s okay to feel it all - the joy, the hope, and yes, even the heartbreak. It’s all part of the process. And when you’re ready, the love you’ve been waiting for will find you in its own perfect way. Remember:  You wouldn’t be here if a part of you hadn’t chosen this. And you wouldn’t have chosen this if it weren’t ultimately for your highest good. We live in a benevolent universe. God isn’t out to get us. You are strong enough to bear what has been handed to you - because you wouldn’t be experiencing it if you weren’t. Your journey is transforming you, preparing you for a love that will surpass all expectations. Trust that what you seek is already seeking you. And know, deep in your soul, that everything will come together in its own divine time. I am sending you love. Jenny x Read my experience of The Journey here: conversationswiththegods.com/story/my-twin-flame-journey-8-years-on If you’re finding that this journey is especially difficult, and you’re yearning for more support along the way, I want you to know that I’ve walked this path too. As a twin flame myself, I understand the deep highs and crushing lows of this experience. In addition to my work as an astrologer, I offer a Twin Flame Journey Mentorship, where we can explore your personal journey together, or a Twin Flame Astrology Reading to help you understand the cosmic dynamics at play. This is not about a hard sell - it’s simply an invitation. If you feel called to dive deeper or need more personalised guidance than this essay can offer, I’d be honoured to walk beside you in whatever way feels right for you. Remember, you’re not alone. I’m here if you need me. Learn more here. Free Twin Flame Resources If you'd like to explore this journey more deeply, I’ve written a series of essays to help you navigate the big questions that arise - and to support you as you begin the inner work this path asks of you. They ALL encourage you to remember that you are the expert on you and you have everything you need within to walk this path with grace and to a successful destination.   Twin Flame Q&A's | Conversation s A note on AI & my writing: I use ChatGPT as a writing assistant—not as a writer. These are my thoughts, ideas, and words, shaped by my lived experience and deep love for self-work, self-awareness, the spiritual journey, and astrology. AI helps me refine, structure, and nudge me toward better phrasing, but the voice you’re reading is mine. I use it as a tool to help me put into words everything I believe is valuable in sharing my insights. Honesty matters to me, and this is simply one way I bring my thoughts to life.

Tool 1: Expel and Burn Ritual The Expel and Burn Ritual is a powerful method for releasing negative energy associated with traumatic events or feelings and replacing it with positive energy. Here is a step-by-step guide to perform this ritual effectively. Step-by-Step Guide 1 Preparation Find a quiet, safe space where you won't be disturbed. Gather materials: paper, pen, a fireproof bowl or container, matches or a lighter, and a candle (optional). 2 Writing Out the Trauma Take a deep breath and centre yourself. On one side of the paper, write down everything you associate with the traumatic event or feeling. Be as detailed as possible. Describe the feeling in your body: Where do you feel it? Is it heavy, tight, hot, cold? Reflect on how the event has repeated in your life: What are the patterns? Identify the people involved: Who has played a role in this trauma? Ask yourself why you believe this event has occurred: What lessons or messages might it hold? 3 Connecting with the Emotion Sit quietly and read over what you have written. Pay close attention to your body's sensations as you do this. Notice any discomfort or tension. Allow yourself to fully feel the emotions connected to this trauma. Acknowledge their presence without judgement. 4 Expelling the Energy Hold the paper in your hands and close your eyes. Visualise the negative energy being absorbed into the paper. Speak out loud: "I ask the universe to clear and clean this energy from my body, mind, and spirit. I release this energy and all its associations." 5 Burning the Paper Light the paper carefully, using the matches or lighter. Place it in the fireproof bowl to burn completely. As it burns, visualise the negative energy dissolving into the universe. Repeat an affirmation: "In all forms, on all levels, and at all places in time, this energy is now cleansed and removed." 6 Replacing with Positive Energy Take a new sheet of paper. Write down the opposite of what you previously described. Focus on the positive feelings and experiences you want to attract. How do you want to feel? Describe it vividly. What kind of experiences do you want to have? Who will be involved? How will these experiences make you feel? 7 Inviting Positive Energy Hold the new paper and close your eyes. Visualise the positive energy being absorbed into your being. Speak out loud: "I ask the universe to bring this positive energy into my life. I am open to receiving these experiences." 8 Burning the Positive Intention Light the second paper and let it burn in the fireproof bowl. As it burns, imagine the positive energy spreading throughout your body and life. Conclude with the affirmation: "In all forms, on all levels, and at all places in time, this energy now fills me and my life." Tool 2: Emotional Experiencing Emotional experiencing is about allowing yourself to fully feel your emotions so they can move through you, rather than becoming stuck and triggered repeatedly. Step-by-Step Guide 1 Preparation Find a quiet and comfortable place where you can be alone. Sit or lie down in a relaxed position. 2 Acknowledging the Emotion Close your eyes and take several deep breaths. Identify the emotion you are feeling. Name it (e.g. sadness, anger, fear). 3 Locating the Emotion in Your Body Focus on your body and find where the emotion is physically located. It might feel like a tightness in your chest, a knot in your stomach, or a heaviness in your limbs. 4 Allowing the Emotion Just like a singing bowl resonates and vibrates when struck, allow your emotion to resonate within you. Don't try to change it or push it away. Simply let it be and feel its full intensity. Imagine the emotion as a wave passing through you, knowing that it will eventually subside. 5 Breathing Through the Emotion Continue to breathe deeply and steadily. As you inhale, imagine the breath reaching the part of your body where the emotion is located. As you exhale, visualise the emotion softening and flowing out of your body. 6 Visualising the Release Picture the emotion as a colour or a shape that gradually fades or dissolves with each breath. Allow yourself to see the emotion transforming into a lighter, more peaceful state. 7 Completion and Reflection Once the intensity of the emotion has diminished, take a few moments to rest. Reflect on the experience: How do you feel now compared to before? What insights have you gained? Write down any thoughts or realisations in a journal. Analogy of the Singing Bowl Imagine your emotion as a note struck on a singing bowl. When the bowl is struck, it vibrates and resonates with a clear, pure sound. This sound eventually fades away, leaving a calm, still silence. Striking the Bowl:  The moment you acknowledge and feel the emotion is like striking the singing bowl. Resonance:  Allowing the emotion to be fully felt without resistance is like letting the bowl's sound resonate naturally. Fading Sound:  As you breathe and stay with the emotion, it begins to lose its intensity, just as the sound of the bowl gradually fades. Silence:  Eventually, the emotion passes through, leaving you in a state of calm and clarity, similar to the bowl's return to stillness. By practising these tools, you can cultivate a deeper connection with your emotions and transform your inner experiences, leading to greater emotional freedom and well-being. Work with me.

Are we just puppets on strings? Contrary to popular opinion among the some of the twins frequenting the forums, we all have free will . If we’re not exercising that free will because we feel entrapped or bound to something or someone, that doesn’t mean we don’t have it. It just means that we don’t realise we have it, and haven’t chosen to exercise it and remove ourselves from our binds. Yes, the twin flame journey can feel like a bind. We feel indelibly connected to this person and desire only them, no one else can possibly feel the same. And because of these overwhelming feelings that they are the only one for us and who we are destined to be with, it feels like we have no choice but to wait, to suffer alone, to watch our beloved pair up with another. But what almost everyone fails to remember, is that this is supposed to be a divine journey. A journey to freedom and authenticity and truth. A journey to sovereignty. Rather than questioning whether someone is our twin and what said twin thinks about us, why don’t we ask why God/Goddess (as our divine Mother and Father) would want us trapped/waiting/suffering? What’s divine about that? How is that awakened? How is that in alignment with Universal Will? We live in a universe governed by the law of attraction. As long as we feel ourselves ‘trapped’ (substitute the word destined or fated if you wish), we will continue to create that reality. We will continue to wait and suffer, while our twin merrily gets on with their lives. Ask yourself seriously. Do you want that? Does that feel divine to you? Is that what you’d choose for yourself? If the answer is no then maybe the next question is to ask, what can you do about it? Feeling bound to someone, even if a magical sounding term is applied to it and we talk about destiny and fate, is a form of co-dependency. There’s nothing unconditional about it. It’s a feeling born of our wounds, wounds we’ve gathered in this lifetime and others. It is a prison. Just as real as one with bars and a warden holding a key. What we fail to remember is that we are the warden and we hold the key . How do we free ourselves from co-dependency? It’s a process. It involved serious and dedicated self work and it takes time and effort. This is why the twin flame journey is not for the faint of heart. It’s not because we’re supposed to sit and wait and forever be in pain, it’s because we have to do the difficult things like face our fears and dive into our shadows. We have to uncover all our early programming and slowly remove ourselves from the chains that imprison us until we are free. Turn it around for a moment: would you want your twin to be forced into a relationship with you? Could you ever feel truly loved and desired if you knew they had no choice in the matter? Do you think they want to feel like you were forced? That you didn’t necessarily even want to be with them? That you had no choice? What sort of foundation is that for a divine and conscious relationship? How is that good for anyone? You have a choice. When you choose to do the work to free yourself from all your programming and heal yourself from all your wounds, when you learn to truly love and respect yourself, you will attract your twin to you. They will choose you because YOU HAVE CHOSEN YOURSELF. They are you. It’s the most important thing to learn on the journey. If they are not interested in you what does that tell you? Could it be that YOU aren’t interested in you? If they don’t think you’re the best choice for a relationship with them what does that tell you? Do you think YOU ARE worthy of their choice? You have the choice. You can choose you, and you can choose them. But don’t make the mistake of thinking you have no choice in the matter. If they aren’t someone you would choose for yourself, or you are endlessly waiting and they don’t seem to care or show any signs of reciprocating your perception of the connection, then maybe it’s time to choose something else for yourself? The universe will support you to do what’s best for you. The universe does not want you imprisoned. The universe wants you free to be your best self and live your best life. Do you need support with your journey? I have been on the journey since 2017 and am in a good place with it. I can offer guidance and support. I can see where you are blocked and advise you on the self work needed to get you unblocked. Connect with me here. I am a certified astrologer specialising in transformational journeys. Read more about me and the services I offer here. Book an astrology reading with me. Read more Twin Flame Journey essays here.