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How do I know if who I think is my twin, is really my twin? Confusion on the twin flame journey

If you haven't asked yourself this question over and over, and over again, then I'd question whether you are actually on the 'Twin Flame Journey'.

The answer?

You don’t and won’t.

You don’t even know whether there is such a thing as a twin flame or twin soul. Just like we don’t know what happens when we die and whether we were before we were born. No one knows anything for certain and if they tell you otherwise then they are suffering from a delusion.

Quote: Life is a mystery to be lived, not a problem to be solved.
Life is a mystery

What is more helpful to you if you find yourself asking this question (and don’t get me wrong here, we all do) is to ask yourself why you need to know.

Why do you need to know?

We all crave security in a fragile world. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if we knew there was a person out there that is ours? A person that is as much us as we are and loves us unconditionally? A person who was chosen, by God no less, to be our partner? And to know that any feelings of heartbreak and pain associated with this person will end in (divine) time when they come to their senses and realise you were destined to be together all along?

Learning to exist in the place of unknowing: To find peace despite the fact that we don’t know what’s going to happen, to love with our whole heart even if it might all disappear tomorrow, to have faith in ourselves and what we feel despite any evidence to support it, is a large part of what this journey is all about and in fact what any spiritual journey is all about. We have to find faith. Faith in ourselves first and foremost and faith in the universe at large.

We have to trust that we are safe to let go (and let God) and that doing so won’t result in unendurable pain and suffering.

What if embodying this truth is the whole purpose and design behind the twin flame journey?

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