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Escaping Twin Flames Universe: my perspective for Twin Flames

Maybe you've arrived here because you've watched one of the Escaping Twin Flames documentaries on Amazon Prime or Netflix, or perhaps you are a member of TFU and just happened upon this blog post. Either way I hope to clarify a few things regarding the journey and its teachers for those who relate to the Twin Flame Journey and the label Twin Flame.

Image of the Twin Flames Universe Facebook Group with Escaping written over the title
Escaping Twin Flames Universe (TFU)

This is for those who relate to the twin flame journey:

Key points:

  1. Resonating with the Twin Flame Journey and identifying as a Twin Flame DOES NOT mean you're in a CULT.

  2. The Twin Flame Journey is unique to everyone on it. Your Twin Flame Journey is unique to you.

  3. The Twin Flame Journey is happening FOR YOU, it is not happening to you.

  4. Relationship with another (UNION) isn't the primary aim of the journey, it's an outcome.

  5. No one else can tell you who your twin is, or isn't. You are the only one with that awareness.

  6. The Twin Flame Journey is designed to break you open, so the truth and wonder of who you are can be revealed. Knowing you is the prize.

  7. Pain isn't compulsory. Yes, The Twin Flame Journey is challenging at times but you leave the pain behind as soon as you understand that you have chosen this path and that you (and only you) have all the answers you need and all the support you need within you to see it through to the end.

  8. Signs and synchronicities happen whether you are in alignment or not. Only you can interpret their meaning BUT beware the mind.

  9. Your mind wants to keep you safe and free from pain. Your mind is capable of lying to you.

  10. Feelings never lie. If you are on the right path and heading in the right direction you will FEEL GOOD. If you don't feel good then ask yourself why.

  11. Calling yourself a teacher doesn't mean you are one.

  12. Having lots of followers doesn't mean you are telling the truth or that you know what you're talking about.

  13. YOU ARE YOUR OWN GURU. You are the ONLY PERSON capable of knowing yourself and knowing what is right for you. Learn to LISTEN to yourself. Find YOUR OWN TRUTH. TRUST yourself.

My Perspective

You are the centre of your universe. You are creating your reality. Your reality is showing you clearly who you are and what you are in alignment with. Only you can change your reality. The only way to change is to go within and change how you think and how you are programmed. EVERYONE is a mirror. EVERYTHING you experience is a mirror. You only have control over yourself. You can't change anyone else. You can't help anyone else. The only way anything will change is if you do it yourself. You have everything you need within you.

You are your own best expert.

However, embodying this truth is complex and it's a process. It begins with knowing who you are, and why you are who you are. It includes accepting who you are in the here and now and accepting your current reality. We cannot change reality until we understand and accept what is.

It is, as it is. You are, as you are.

This process is multifaceted and it takes time but if you are working your way through the process it will FEEL GOOD and you will see your reality CHANGE.

If you feel bad. If you are stuck in the same patterns. Stop. Let go of everything you think you know and ask yourself why. Quiet your mind and listen to your feelings. Your feelings will tell you the truth about the situation you are in and if it's right for you. Trust yourself to know what's right for you and be brave enough to do what's right for you.

Beware the false guru

A personal note: I have never been a member of Twin Flames Universe so I don't have any personal experience of this group. I have watched the Amazon Prime documentary and the Netflix documentary and I have some serious concerns but I am not one to judge, we all have to make up our own minds in this regard and I am aware of how the media distorts and tells the story it wants to. If you are involved in the group then I recommend watching both series' so you can draw your own conclusions based on your own awareness. I have been a member of other twin flame groups during my journey and believe that it's important for us as humans to belong to communities that support and understand us. We all need to learn from each other. We also all need to practice discernment. Having said all that, in my experienced opinion, this is fundamentally a solo journey. We must learn to listen to our self, trust our self and step into our own power. We must become our own guru.

In the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 7:15–20), Jesus warns his followers of false prophets:

"Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep's clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves. You will know them by their fruits. Are grapes gathered from thorns, or figs from thistles? So, every sound tree bears good fruit, but the bad tree bears evil fruit. A sound tree cannot bear evil fruit, nor can a bad tree bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. Thus you will know them by their fruits."

"Power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely."

A true spiritual teacher will empower you to know that you have all the answers you need within you.

A true spiritual teacher will encourage you to remember that you are the master of your creation. You are the universe (or God if you prefer) experiencing itself.

A true spiritual teacher will empower you to know yourself.

A true spiritual teacher will know that you are the solution to your problems. You are the only person that can truly help you.

A true spiritual teacher is here to serve. They want the best for you.

It's all on you.


If you wish to read more about twin flames and what I think about them please see my blog post twin flames: my perspective.

And if you would like some support with the journey you can read more about me and what I can offer here:


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