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  • How do we know if our Twin Flame will return or we are just delusional?

    The truth of the matter is that we don't . And being attached to the idea that they will is another block in the journey that will keep you stuck. There are no certainties in life. "The only unchangeable certainty in life is that nothing is unchangeable or certain." John F. Kennedy No one is able to predict the future , including whether or not your twin will return to you (no matter how psychic someone is, or how much money you throw at the question). Relationships, even those which are deeply significant and spiritual in nature, can be influenced by various factors, including personal growth, timing, and individual choices. What is much more important to focus on, is your well-being and personal growth . Believing that your happiness solely depends on someone else's return will keep you stuck. We cannot know if our Twin Flame will return. We may or may not be delusional. What if learning this is a part of what the Twin Flame Journey is all about? This is the journey of life: We lose those we love and we can't imagine how we'll move on and find happiness again. We feel as if we have lost a part of ourselves and will be incomplete forevermore. Every single human being is facing an unknown. We have to find peace in that truth. We have to learn to trust that the love that is meant for us will return in one form or another. We can't hold onto the past. We don't know the future. We just have to find a way to be comfortable in the present with what is. And know that this, as it is, is enough. How do we achieve this? How do we let them go and choose ourselves instead? The Power of Acceptance in The Twin Flame Journey If we desire change in our current circumstances, first we must accept what is: 𝟭 𝗔𝗰𝗰𝗲𝗽𝘁 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹. You love them. You want a relationship with them. Their absence is the most painful thing you’ve ever experienced. You are angry. You are frightened. You are confused. You are delighted. You are grateful. All your feelings are valid. All your feelings are acceptable. 𝟮 𝗔𝗰𝗰𝗲𝗽𝘁 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗯𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗲𝘃𝗲. The twin flame concept is nuts (let’s face it). Believing you are uniquely tied to another person is crazy. Believe it anyway. This needs to be embodied. The world will show you what you believe by reflecting it back to you. If you have any doubt then others will doubt you. When you’ve embodied it, if you tell someone you are a twin flame and have met your twin they will believe you without question. Work your way through the layers of disbelief and doubt you hold within and let the world show you how you’re getting on with it. 𝟯 𝗔𝗰𝗰𝗲𝗽𝘁 𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗜𝗦. THIS IS KEY Accept how things are (really accept - be brutally honest with yourself - don’t pretend to yourself that he really likes you if his actions and words say differently). Accept that they are gone and that this may be the end of that connection. Accept that you cannot know the future, you cannot change the past, and the present as you see it is real. We live in multiple realities and accepting the reality of this one is key to changing it. This will be painful. That’s okay. Until we grieve and heal the pain of this reality we cannot create a new one. 𝟰 𝗔𝗰𝗰𝗲𝗽𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝘀 𝗯𝗶𝗴𝗴𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗿𝗲𝗹𝘆 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂r 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗿𝗼𝗹. You can control your behaviour and your actions. You can take control of your self and do the work needed to bring yourself back to your true essence. Bring all your focus to yourself and show yourself the love and attention you deserve. Let go of trying to control everything else. Have faith that it is being taken care of and conserve all of your energy for you. You need it. 𝟱 𝗔𝗰𝗰𝗲𝗽𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝘀 𝗵𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗙𝗢𝗥 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗼𝘂𝘁𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗯𝗲 𝗚𝗢𝗢𝗗. Have faith. Essentially you can encapsulate SURRENDER by saying let go and let God but saying that and actually being able to embody that is a leap. Break it down into smaller steps and work on one step at a time. Moving on from a Significant Relationship   Accept your emotions:  It's okay to feel sad, hurt, or angry. Allow yourself to experience these emotions without judgment. Accepting your feelings is an important step in the healing process. Give yourself time:  Healing takes time, and everyone progresses at their own pace. Be patient with yourself and understand that moving on is a gradual process. Set boundaries:  If possible, establish clear boundaries with your ex-partner. This may include limiting contact or taking a break from communication to give both of you space to heal. Focus on self-care:  Take care of your physical and emotional well-being. Engage in activities that bring you joy, whether it's spending time with friends, pursuing hobbies, or practicing self-care routines. Seek support:  Reach out to friends, family, or a therapist who can provide a listening ear and emotional support. Talking about your feelings can be therapeutic and help you gain perspective. Reflect on the relationship:  Understand what you learned from the relationship and the breakup. Identify any patterns or behaviours that may have contributed to the end of the relationship. Set new goals:  Focus on personal growth and set new goals for yourself. Whether it's related to your career, education, or personal interests, having new objectives can help shift your focus. Create a support system:  Surround yourself with positive influences. Spend time with friends and family who uplift and support you during this challenging time. Consider professional help:  If you find it challenging to cope with the emotions on your own, seeking the help of a therapist or counsellor can provide valuable insights and coping strategies. Forgive and let go:  Forgiveness doesn't mean condoning the actions that led to the breakup, but it allows you to release the emotional burden and move forward. Letting go is a gradual process, and it's essential for your own well-being. Embracing being single and doing the self work Being single and focusing on self-work and self-love can transform how you feel and experience your reality. Here's how: Self-awareness: Being single allows you the time and space to reflect on your own values, desires, and goals. This self-awareness is crucial for understanding what you truly want and need in a relationship, leading to better compatibility with a future partner. Personal growth: During your single period, you have the opportunity to invest time and energy in personal development. This can involve acquiring new skills, pursuing hobbies, and working on aspects of yourself that contribute to a more well-rounded and confident individual. Emotional independence: Developing emotional independence is vital for a healthy relationship. Being single provides the chance to cultivate a strong sense of self and emotional well-being, reducing the likelihood of relying on a partner for validation or happiness. Establishing boundaries: Use this time to understand and communicate your personal boundaries effectively. Learning what you're comfortable with and what you need in a relationship will contribute to healthier dynamics when you do enter into a new partnership. Healing from past relationships: Being single can offer the space needed to heal from past heartbreaks and learn from past relationship experiences. This healing process is essential for entering a future relationship with a fresh perspective and a more open heart. Increased self-esteem: Practicing self-love and self-care boosts your self-esteem and self-worth. When you feel good about yourself, you are more likely to attract positive and healthy relationships. Reduced co-dependency: Taking time for self-work allows you to break free from co-dependent patterns. You'll learn to prioritize your own well-being, which is crucial for maintaining a balanced and fulfilling relationship in the future. Clear relationship goals: Use your time as a single person to clarify what you want in a relationship and what your long-term goals are. This clarity will guide your choices and actions when you're ready to enter a new relationship. Attracting the right partner: When you've invested in your own growth and well-being, you're more likely to attract a partner who is also committed to personal development. Healthy individuals tend to form healthier relationships. Enjoying your own company: Learning to enjoy your own company and finding fulfilment independently makes you less dependent on a relationship for happiness. This contributes to a more balanced and positive approach to future partnerships. Remember that this is journey of freedom. The journey of self-discovery and personal development is a process and it takes time. Taking the time to invest in yourself sets the foundation for a more fulfilling and satisfying future relationship. Find peace in the unknown and cultivate an amazing life for yourself in the here and now. Be the Phoenix For more on Surrender: What is surrender on the twin flame journey? How do we do it? Looking for support? Learn more about how I can serve you   Work with me   Find more twin flame Q & A's here

  • What is the difference between a twin flame runner and an unrequited love?

    Here’s the harsh truth: we can’t know for sure. Not in the moment, and not when we’re in pain. Not while we’re still grasping for answers, still trying to make it mean something. It’s only in hindsight, and often only after deep inner work, that clarity comes. So the question becomes less about what  the connection is, and more about what you’re going to do with it . Because right now, the facts are the facts. They’re not here. They’re not choosing you. They’re not showing up in the way you long for. That’s unrequited love . And that’s what you need to work with, until and unless something else reveals itself. That’s surrender. Not giving up. Not denying the soul-level pull. But accepting what is  and handing the rest over to something larger than you. You do the only thing you can  do: You get on with the work at hand. Part One: Trust It’s Real, and Work With What You’ve Got The connection may be sacred. It may be karmic. It may be a twin flame dynamic. But until and unless the love is reciprocated in form , in words, in action, in consistency, you have to face what’s actually happening . That’s what it means to surrender . Not to give up. But to accept what is. To stop chasing a version of the story that isn’t being lived. You treat it as unrequited love. You accept their ‘no’ as real. You stop waiting for a fantasy to rescue you from your present moment and start showing up for yourself. That’s when the transformation begins. Because this path isn’t about figuring them out. It’s about figuring you  out. What are they showing you about how you respond to rejection? What beliefs are surfacing, about your worth, your lovability, your enough-ness? What would it cost you to stop believing they’re coming back? This is the mirror. The real one. The painful one. And it’s the one that can set you free. Part Two: If They Are Your Twin Flame, What Then? If they are your twin, then they are you. Not romantically. Energetically. Soulfully. Archetypally. They are the part of you you can’t quite reach on your own. The part you’ve exiled, feared, hidden, or forgotten. And the running? That’s a reflection of your own resistance, conscious or unconscious, to what this connection asks of you. Because twin flame love doesn’t just show you bliss. It shows you everything that stands in the way of bliss. It pulls your shadows to the surface. It rattles your illusions. It tests your nervous system, your self-worth, your sense of control. If they are running, some part of you is too. So how do you work with that? Stop asking why they ran. Ask why you’re still afraid to stay. Look at where you abandon yourself. Where you edit yourself. Where you still seek approval, not truth. Notice what feels intolerable about love. Real love. Intimate, honest, no-escape love. Notice when you choose fantasy over embodiment. Hope over presence. Obsession over devotion. And most importantly, do the work to meet yourself there. Sit with the fear. Breathe into it. Hold it like a child. Bring it into the light. That’s the only way it stops needing to be mirrored outside of you. The more you love yourself in the places that still ache, the less the ache needs to keep repeating. And that’s when the story changes, whether or not the person does. Conclusion: You May Never Know Until You Let Go That’s the paradox, isn’t it? You don’t get to know whether it was your twin flame until you’ve stopped needing it to be. Until you’ve surrendered the story and found your power again. That’s when the truth reveals itself. Maybe they come back. Maybe they don’t. Maybe something new arrives that mirrors the love in a deeper, cleaner way. But by then, it won’t be about proving anything. It’ll just be about love. Real love. Rooted in truth, not projection. And that love will have started with you. 🤍 Need support on the path? I can help. This journey is beautiful, but brutal. And you don’t have to walk it alone. I offer one-to-one support for those navigating twin flame dynamics, spiritual love, and the deep inner work this path demands. Whether you're trying to let go, make sense of the connection, or just find your footing again, I bring a grounded, heart-centred approach using astrology, intuition, and soul-based guidance. ✨ You can book a mentorship session with me [here] . ✨ You can book a Twin Flame Journey Astrology Reading with me [here] . ✨ Explore my twin flame offerings [here] . ✨ Or get in touch if you’re not sure what you need but feel ready to begin. Let’s find the gold in this together. More Twin Flame Q & A's Read about my Twin Flame Journey: conversationswiththegods.com/story/my-twin-flame-journey-8-years-on Twin Flames A note on AI & my writing: I use ChatGPT as a writing assistant—not as a writer. These are my thoughts, ideas, and words, shaped by my lived experience and deep love for self-work, self-awareness, the spiritual journey, and astrology. AI helps me refine, structure, and nudge me toward better phrasing, but the voice you’re reading is mine. I use it as a tool to help me put into words everything I believe is valuable in sharing my insights. Honesty matters to me, and this is simply one way I bring my thoughts to life.

  • Clearing the Heart: some advice for those in this part of the 'twin flame journey' process

    My best advice when clearing your heart or going through any challenging time 1 Everything that you are experiencing is both because of you and for you . Learn to see the deeper meaning and purpose in both the (perceived) positive and negative experiences you have. 2 All the answers you need, to every question that arises, are within you. 3 Make yourself the focus. Focus on getting to know yourself. 4 Everything we have experienced is stored in our energetic body and our physical body (our heart included) is the conduit between our energy and our mind. Feelings are how our body talks to us. We tell ourselves what we need to know. Use the negative experiences you have to teach you about who you are and what you need and learn to listen to your body. Series of questions: What am I feeling? Where am I feeling this in my body? Can I label the feeling? E.g. angry, disappointed, frustrated… Have I felt this before? When have I felt this before? Is there a similar experience/story? How far does that experience go back? Is there a root experience that I’m now repeating over and over again? 5 Start every day with the awareness that it is new. It is an adventure and anything can happen. Ask to be guided to what you need and trust that it’s all for your good. Even when it feels hard. At the end of the day put that day to bed. Spend a little time reflecting but then ask for the day to be over so you can rest fully for a new one to begin again tomorrow. Ask for your energies to be cleared and cleaned and to be fresh for what you will do tomorrow. And with the same open mind begin your adventure again. Airport Mesa Vortex, Sedona at sunrise 08/08/2018 6 And look for the magic. Synchronicities are amazing and they are there for everyone to see, when you look, you'll see more. They remind you there is a design to it all. And if you’re struggling ask for a song, and then shuffle a playlist, and let the words speak to you. My car mileage at 6 minutes past 6 on a magical day in 2018 Bonus: 7 You are the authority on you. You know who you are and what’s right for you. Learn to discern your own truth. And know this: We live in a benevolent universe and you have infinite support and love at all times, whether you can see or feel it in the moment, or not. If you need help ask . If you are struggling ask The Universe for support . Ask for love . Ask for a sign . And know you’ll receive exactly what you need when you need it. If you need some support get in touch with me here . Read more about my Twin Flame Journey here: My Twin Flame Journey: 8 Years On

  • What if your 'twin flame' doesn't love you anymore?

    Then they don’t. And that hurts . Let’s start there , with the truth that lands like a stone in the chest. Let’s not sugarcoat it or dress it up with spiritual bypassing or hopeful projections. If they’ve said they don’t love you, or if they’ve gone quiet, walked away, or chosen another life, then for now, in this moment, the reality is that they are not loving you in the way you want to be loved . So what do you do with that? You listen . Not to them. To you. Because whether or not they love you anymore, the ache you feel is still yours. And the questions it stirs are doorways. Do you  love you? What does their lack of love mean  about you in your own mind? What story does it touch? That you’re unlovable? Unworthy? Replaceable? What would it feel like to believe them, to accept their no as real? What parts of you would grieve? Collapse? Panic? Where have you felt this before? And… what if this isn’t about whether they love you—but about what you’re being invited to love  in yourself, right now? The Twin Flame Journey isn’t just about whether you end up together. It’s about what gets awakened in you through the fire of not being chosen. Not being loved back. Not being rescued. If you’re looking outside for reassurance, trying to decode their silence or cling to signs, it’s because something in you still believes you need their  love to feel whole. But what if the opposite is true? What if this entire connection exists to show you how to choose you , how to meet yourself with love, truth, and presence, even when they won’t? That doesn’t mean the love you shared wasn’t real. It was. It is. But the form it takes now might be different. The gift may not be union, it may be transformation. So what if they don’t love you anymore? You let that fact, if it is a fact, break you open. And in the space it leaves behind, you begin to hear the voice beneath the ache. Can I still love myself here? Can I trust that my soul knew exactly what it was doing when it called him in? Can I let this be my path, even if it doesn’t look like the ending I imagined? 🕯 An Invitation If you’ve found your way here, it’s probably not by accident. This isn’t just a post. It’s a prompt. A mirror. A moment. Before you scroll on, take a few minutes to sit with yourself. Close your eyes. Breathe into your body. Ask gently, not with judgment, but with curiosity: What do I need to understand about this situation? Let whatever wants to come, come. You don’t need to chase answers. Just listen. The ache you feel is your teacher. The silence is part of the message. This path will keep circling back until you truly hear what your soul is trying to say. So give yourself that space. You are worth the time it takes to heal. 🤍 If You’re Ready to Go Deeper on Your Twin Flame Journey This journey isn’t easy. But you don’t have to walk it alone. If you’re sitting with questions you can’t quite answer… if the ache still lives in your chest and you want to understand what it’s really asking of you… I offer 1:1 astrology readings, guidance sessions, and twin flame support designed to help you come home to yourself, gently, truthfully, and with love. You can book a session with me [here] or explore more about my twin flame offerings [here] . Let’s find the gold in this together. Heartbroken? Read more about my own Twin Flame Journey: My Twin Flame Journey: 8 Years On

  • Escaping Twin Flames Universe: my perspective for Twin Flames

    Maybe you've arrived here because you've watched one of the Escaping Twin Flames documentaries on Amazon Prime or Netflix, or perhaps you are a member of TFU and just happened upon this blog post. Either way I hope to clarify a few things regarding the journey and its teachers for those who relate to the Twin Flame Journey and the label Twin Flame . Escaping Twin Flames Universe (TFU) This is for those who relate to the twin flame journey: Key points: Resonating with the Twin Flame Journey and identifying as a Twin Flame DOES NOT mean you're in a CULT. The Twin Flame Journey is unique to everyone on it. Your Twin Flame Journey is unique to you. The Twin Flame Journey is happening FOR YOU, it is not happening to you. Relationship with another (UNION) isn't the primary aim of the journey, it's an outcome. No one else can tell you who your twin is, or isn't. You are the only one with that awareness. The Twin Flame Journey is designed to break you open, so the truth and wonder of who you are can be revealed. Knowing you is the prize. Pain isn't compulsory. Yes, The Twin Flame Journey is challenging at times but you leave the pain behind as soon as you understand that you have chosen this path and that you (and only you) have all the answers you need and all the support you need within you to see it through to the end. Signs and synchronicities happen whether you are in alignment or not. Only you can interpret their meaning BUT beware the mind. Your mind wants to keep you safe and free from pain. Your mind is capable of lying to you. Feelings never lie. If you are on the right path and heading in the right direction you will FEEL GOOD. If you don't feel good then ask yourself why. Calling yourself a teacher doesn't mean you are one. Having lots of followers doesn't mean you are telling the truth or that you know what you're talking about. YOU ARE YOUR OWN GURU. You are the ONLY PERSON capable of knowing yourself and knowing what is right for you. Learn to LISTEN to yourself. Find YOUR OWN TRUTH. TRUST yourself. My Perspective You are the centre of your universe. You are creating your reality. Your reality is showing you clearly who you are and what you are in alignment with. Only you can change your reality. The only way to change is to go within and change how you think and how you are programmed. EVERYONE is a mirror. EVERYTHING you experience is a mirror. You only have control over yourself. You can't change anyone else. You can't help anyone else. The only way anything will change is if you do it yourself. You have everything you need within you. You are your own best expert. However, embodying this truth is complex and it's a process. It begins with knowing who you are , and why you are who you are. It includes accepting who you are in the here and now and accepting your current reality. We cannot change reality until we understand and accept what is. It is, as it is. You are, as you are. This process is multifaceted and it takes time but if you are working your way through the process it will FEEL GOOD and you will see your reality CHANGE . If you feel bad. If you are stuck in the same patterns. Stop. Let go of everything you think you know and ask yourself why. Quiet your mind and listen to your feelings. Your feelings will tell you the truth about the situation you are in and if it's right for you. Trust yourself to know what's right for you and be brave enough to do what's right for you. Beware the false guru A personal note: I have never been a member of Twin Flames Universe so I don't have any personal experience of this group. I have watched the Amazon Prime documentary and the Netflix documentary and I have some serious concerns but I am not one to judge, we all have to make up our own minds in this regard and I am aware of how the media distorts and tells the story it wants to. If you are involved in the group then I recommend watching both series' so you can draw your own conclusions based on your own awareness. I have been a member of other twin flame groups during my journey and believe that it's important for us as humans to belong to communities that support and understand us. We all need to learn from each other. We also all need to practice discernment. Having said all that, in my experienced opinion, this is fundamentally a solo journey . We must learn to listen to our self , trust our self and step into our own power. We must become our own guru. In the Sermon on the Mount ( Matthew 7:15–20 ), Jesus warns his followers of false prophets: "Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep's clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves. You will know them by their fruits. Are grapes gathered from thorns, or figs from thistles? So, every sound tree bears good fruit, but the bad tree bears evil fruit. A sound tree cannot bear evil fruit, nor can a bad tree bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. Thus you will know them by their fruits." "Power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely." A true spiritual teacher will empower you to know that you have all the answers you need within you. A true spiritual teacher will encourage you to remember that you are the master of your creation. You are the universe (or God if you prefer) experiencing itself. A true spiritual teacher will empower you to know yourself. A true spiritual teacher will know that you are the solution to your problems. You are the only person that can truly help you. A true spiritual teacher is here to serve. They want the best for you. It's all on you. 🐉 If you wish to read more about twin flames and what I think about them please see my blog post twin flames: my perspective . And if you would like some support with the journey you can read more about me and what I can offer here: Learn more about how I can serve you Work with me

  • Being unworthy: a twin flame characteristic.

    We have a desire. We want this man*. Hell, we’re ‘told’ this man is ours and that despite outward appearances he wants us too! But we can’t get what we want. It doesn’t matter what we do. Our deepest desire is brutally denied. We’re told to let it go. By him, and by everyone we’ve told about our journey. We go searching for answers and support and are told, again and again, to let him go. Focus on ourselves. Put our trust outside of us in a universe/source/God we may or may not believe in and have learned (been programmed) not to trust. And, even if we manage to do all that, still we do not have what we desire. This man is absent from our lives and (if we’re brutally honest with ourselves) most of the time that feels like crap. So what DO we do? Yes, we can’t go about it in the way we thought. We can’t throw ourselves at him. We can’t manipulate him. We can’t persuade him to be with us because we know it’s his destiny. We can’t even wear down his barriers through our sparkling company and devoted adoration. What we can do is to learn that we never needed to try hard. We are immensely powerful. We can have anything we want. Whatever we want. Including a wonderful committed relationship with this man. We don’t have to let him go. It’s all available to us. So what’s stopping us? We are. Our own disbelief. The deep feelings that we’re not good enough, pretty enough, thin enough, clever enough, young enough, rich enough, aware enough, gifted enough. If he isn’t with us, if he’s not available, then a part of us knows we’re not worthy of his love. Ultimately, since this is the one man who is supposed to really love us, we know we’re not actually loveable. We’re NOT WORTHY. (Now that’s not true of course. We are worthy. Every one of us deserves to be loved. Every one of us is loveable. Exactly as we are. ) The twin flame experience is multifaceted. All of it has design and purpose. All of it will change us for the better if we allow it. He triggers our wounds so we heal. He leaves us to do it alone and we learn we can. He stops loving us so we are forced to learn to love ourselves. And all the time we are healing our power is growing. If we embrace the experience and what it is trying to teach us we will eventually remember we are worthy AND we will be in our power. We will be able to have whatever we want. And that is also designed and purposeful. The union and partnership of two healed and powerful beings working towards a common goal means it manifests much faster. Imagine what we’ll be able to achieve when we’ve learned how to do this, when we’ve become all that we are and know we are worthy. We can change the world. *I’ve used ‘him’ since it applies to me and my situation but swap out for ‘she/they’ as required. THIS IS MY EXPERIENCE. It will resonate with some and for others may not. We are worthy of love and belonging. Looking for support? Learn more about how I can serve you   Work with me

  • Repeating Numbers

    I believe The Universe speaks to us constantly through what we encounter, what we see and what we think moment to moment. When I see repeating numbers I assume there's a message for me in them and will embark on a quest to find out what that message is. This act of noticing, and then connecting with the inner wisdom, is a skill that can be learned and like everything that's valuable in the journey of self transformation, it takes practice . Look for the magic! Some cautionary words: The more we focus our attention on repeating numbers, the more we'll attract them into our reality. Beware the mind: our mind (or ego) wants to keep us happy and comfortable, it's less interested in truth. It is easy to get obsessed with repeating numbers and their meanings and find the meaning that we most 'want' to be true in the moment. Objectivity is not always easy. If your reality does not match what you are being 'told' by the numbers you are seeing, ask yourself if you are being honest about what the numbers could mean, or are just feeding a delusion. If seeking meanings is causing you frustration or pain, let go, give yourself a break and stop seeking answers. Trust that the answers you need will come to you in the right time and everything is always perfect. You are exactly where you're meant to be. Repeating Numbers 11:11 So, The Universe has got your attention. This is important: Everyone is unique. Everyone’s journey is unique. And what those numbers mean to you will be unique for you . When I first began noticing repeating numbers and wanted to understand what they meant for me I came across an amazing resource, created by an incredibly gifted awakened wonder: Joanne Walmsley . I have copied this directly from her site and recommend that you visit it in order to learn and understand more about what the inherent vibrations of numbers are and what they could mean to you (and for you ). ANGEL NUMBERS - What are They? The phenomena of 'Number Sequences', sometimes known as ' Angel Numbers ' is becoming more and more prevalent day by day. Thousands upon thousands of people from all walks of life, from all parts of the world, and from every creed and religion, are reporting the phenomena of noticing particular number sequences on clocks, timers, car number plates, billboards, and from all kinds of sources. According to respected authors, therapists and spiritualists around the world, this phenomenon is occurring as a new Spiritual Awareness is taking place and gaining momentum on our planet. As a race, people are evolving on a Spiritual level, with the number sequences being 'messages' from a Higher Source. Your angels (and/or spirit guides ) guide you through your thoughts, feelings, words and visions. They also show you ‘ signs ’ - that is, things that you see repeatedly with your physical eyes. One of the signs is repetitive number sequences. Angels and those of the spiritual realm do their best to get our attention and to communicate with us. In this way, they help us heal our own lives. However, we often discount the signs that they give us, writing them off as mere coincidences or our imagination." Your angels often communicate messages to you by showing you sequences of numbers. They do this in two ways. First, they subtly whisper in your ear so that you will look up in time to notice the time displayed on the clock, or the phone number on an advertisement or something similar. The angels hope that you will be aware and acknowledge that you are seeing this same sequence of numbers, over and over. The second way in which the angels show you meaningful number sequences' is by physically arranging for something like a car driving in front of you that has specific number plates, and hope that you realize that you are seeing the number sequence again. They want you to notice, then look into the messages further. When you notice a particular number sequence recurring for you, ask the angels what they are trying to tell you, and you will find that your angels will give you additional information. Monitor your thoughts carefully, and be sure to only think about what you want, not what you don't want. The great Pythagoras said that everything in the Universe is mathematically precise, and that each number has its own vibration and meaning. The placement of the numbers in a sequence holds special meaning. Numerology is a sacred science that has maintained its relevance from ancient to modern times. Numbers point out the importance of seeing ‘messages’ three- dimensionally, in order to show us the lessons, growth opportunities and guidance contained with each experience. As you recognize and interpret the numbers around you, you may feel more connected to the angels . This connection allows the angels to open the door to an incredible connection that brings peace, hope and love. Number sequence interpretation is an easy way to receive messages from your angels . Numerals are everywhere, from digital clocks to license plates. Each number has a vibrational frequently relating directly to its meaning. The angels always seek to give us guidance and answers. When they call our attention to number sequences, it is a positive sign of their devotion, love and power. When you notice a number sequence, listen to your angel’s guidance that comes through your feelings, visions and thoughts. The more you notice these signs, the more frequently they will appear in your life. Once you understand the ‘signs’ meanings and accept that they are not mere ‘coincidences’, but important and purposeful events and messages, you will experience a close and clear communication with your angels . You will discover spiritual signs and messages all around you, all the time. You may also notice number sequences that signify things of personal significance, such as birth dates, anniversaries, telephone numbers etc. In these cases the angels are giving you an even deeper, pertinent and personal message. The recurrence of number sequences is a subtle and constant reminder that something magical … something Divine is happening. When you see the number sequences (‘ Angel Numbers ’), acknowledge that the angels are telling you that you are on your true path, and say ‘Thank You’ to them for communicating with you. The Angel Numbers are messages for us - best we heed them. The main thing about seeing and acknowledging the repeating number sequences or Angel Numbers is the fact that you are consciously seeing them. At this time, your angels are communicating directly with YOU. The messages are for YOU and they are about YOU and YOUR life ... It is up to YOU to take the time to go within, listen to your intuition and true self, and figure out what the message/s are telling YOU and what they mean to YOU. Only you know what lies within you ... Your highest guidance is unique for you and you have all of your own answers within you. Love and Light Joanne Sacred Scribes Learn more about how to interpret the numbers you are being shown here: And find her hugely helpful, enormous list, of repeating numbers and their meanings here: ANGEL NUMBERS - A Guide to Repeating Number Sequences and their Messages and Meanings. All postings by Joanne Walmsley - Sacred Scribes may be used for personal, not-for-profit purposes only. sacredscribes@gmail.com Joanne Walmsley Sacred Scribes Australia I subscribe exactly to what Joanne says here, " Interpreting your Angel Numbers is a very personal undertaking, and to decipher them accurately you must use your own intuitive abilities. Just as each and every soul has its own unique vibration and energy, so too does the messages and meanings of your recurring number sequences." and recommend you embark on your own amazing and magical journey of learning how to decipher the messages The Universe is giving you so that you can be guided on your journey with faith and confidence in who you are and where you're going. "The main thing about seeing and acknowledging the repeating number sequences or Angel Numbers is the fact that you are consciously seeing them. At this time, your angels are communicating directly with YOU. The messages are for YOU and they are about YOU and YOUR life... It is up to YOU to take the time to go within, listen to your intuition and true self, and figure out what the message/s are telling YOU and what they mean to YOU. Only you know what lies within you... Your highest guidance is unique for you and you have all of your own answers within you." Joanne Walmsley Sacred Scribes Australia I wish you well on your journey of self discovery and awareness. 💖 For More Twin Flame advice and support please read my other blog posts and Q & A's here . To read about my perspective of the journey click below: Read my Twin Flame Story here. I am a trained and certified Hellenistic Astrologer as well as a Twin Flame on the journey since 2017. Read more about Twin Flames and my journey here . If you need some support then get in touch and we can have a chat. I offer Twin Flame Journey Astrology Readings and Twin Flame Mentorship. Book online here. Client Testimony: 'I have just had an amazing reading with Jenny looking at my birth chart and how it links into my twin flame journey. It was truly fascinating and helped me to understand why certain things have played out in the way they have. The reading really helped me to understand truly that this journey is so outside the realms of our control. There are so many forces at play. I highly recommend this service to anyone looking to deepen their understanding of their twin flame pathway. Thank you so much!' - Sarah, Twin Flame

  • The answer to every question

    Have you ever found yourself searching for answers - turning to experts, friends, or even random internet searches - only to feel that nothing quite fits? You’ll find plenty of well-considered, knowledgeable opinions, each valuable in its own way. Even the sceptics and cynics have something to offer. But here’s the truth: no one else holds the answer you truly need. There are no experts in your  journey. The answer that’s perfect for someone else might not be perfect for you. Your path is yours alone, and the truth you seek is already within you. As Luke Skywalker tells Rey before she sets off to save the galaxy: “You have everything you need.” This is the key to unlocking your journey. No one else can make you happy. No one else can heal you. No one else can wave a magic wand and bring your beloved back to you. No one else can answer the questions you are asking. No one else knows you better than you do, and no one else can make absolute sense of something that is meant for you. But don’t take anyone else’s word for it. Don't take my word for it. Don’t try to recreate someone else’s experience. Try it for yourself. Want to know what the number 22 or 1111 means? Want to know whether you should reach out to the object of your affection? Want to understand why you keep experiencing the same story over and over? Want to know why you’re feeling angry, sad, frustrated - or joyful? Want to know why your knees are hurting? Ask the question, and you’ll get the answer you need. It will come in the way that’s best for you - and in that process, you’ll start to trust yourself. You’ll begin to know  that whatever you need to understand is already within you. That you have everything you need . Practical Steps to Start Trusting Yourself Ask Clearly and Intentionally  – Write down your question or say it out loud. Be specific about what you want to understand. Observe Without Expectation  – Pay attention to your thoughts, emotions, and surroundings. Clues might come in the form of a sudden insight, a conversation, a song, or even something as simple as a repeated word or image. Journal Your Experiences  – Keep track of the answers you receive. Writing things down helps you notice patterns and strengthen your inner knowing. Practice Stillness  – Whether through meditation, deep breathing, or just a few quiet moments in nature, create space to listen to yourself without distractions. Use Your Body’s Wisdom  – Notice how different answers make you feel. Does a choice bring relief or tension? Your body often knows before your mind does. Trust Small Decisions First  – Build confidence by listening to yourself in everyday choices, what to eat, which route to take, whether to say yes or no to something small. Release the Need for Immediate Answers  – Sometimes, clarity comes later. Let go of urgency and trust that the right answer will reveal itself in time. How Do Answers Arrive? Clarity comes in many forms. Sometimes, a thought pops into your head fully formed. Other times, clues appear in the environment - something a child says, an object that falls at just the right moment, a pattern in daily life. Piece them together, and suddenly, the picture is clear. Sometimes, the answer is in a book you pick up or a film you watch. Sometimes, it’s a search result that stands out in just the right way. There’s no single method. There’s only your  way. So, if you have a question, seek your own wisdom first . But if you’d like an outside perspective, feel free to ask . The most valuable answers, though, will always come from within, because you already have everything you need . I share this because it’s what I’ve learned on my own journey, the hard way, through trial and error, through moments of doubt and deep clarity. And if you find yourself feeling stuck, if you want support in tapping into your own inner wisdom, or if you simply want to unlock more joy in the process, I’m here. Sometimes, we just need a little reflection to see what’s already within us. If that’s what you’re looking for, I’d love to help. Find out more about me and what I can offer in respect of The Twin Flame Journey here.

  • Are they really my twin? Confusion on the twin flame journey.

    Regardless of the inner knowing and the intensity of feeling, sooner or later the doubt kicks in and we begin to question. Questioning whether this person is actually our twin is a normal part of 'the journey' and an essential piece of the process. Question: Are they my twin? Answer: Only you can answer that question. Question: Can I confirm they are my twin? Answer: No. There is no one outside of you, no tool you can use, no test you can take, that can definitively answer this question for you. Your astrology chart won't tell you, their astrology chart won't tell you. You could go to a number of different psychics and if you are unsure within then they will reflect that uncertainty and give you a variety of different answers. A comparison of photos won't reveal the truth. There is no way on earth to give you absolute, rational evidence beyond doubt, to confirm they are your twin. You can’t even know whether there is such a thing as a twin flame or twin soul. Just like we don’t know what happens when we die, and whether we were before we were born. No one knows anything for certain and if they tell you otherwise then they are suffering from a delusion. Life is a mystery What I wish someone had said to me * when I was caught up in doubt and desperate to know if he is my twin. Is he my twin? It doesn’t matter. It’s the wrong question to ask.   What matters  is that this individual has entered your life and turned it upside down. This individual is a critical catalyst in your life journey and as such their presence and importance cannot be denied . You have been led to the twin flame journey  for a reason . And if you resonate with the twin flame journey then you are on it . So, for now anyway, until you have more information, this individual is your twin . *in retrospect, my 'twin' did say this to me, though not in words. What is more helpful to you when you find yourself asking this question is to ask yourself why you need to know. The right question to ask: Why do I need to know? We all crave security in a fragile world. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if we knew there was a person out there that is ours? A person that is as much us as we are and loves us unconditionally? A person who was chosen, by God no less, to be our partner? And to know that any feelings of heartbreak and pain associated with this person will end in (divine) time when they come to their senses and realise you were destined to be together all along? Learning to exist in the place of unknowing : To find peace despite the fact that we don’t know what’s going to happen, to love with our whole heart even if it might all disappear tomorrow, to have faith in ourselves and what we feel despite any evidence to support it, is a large part of what this journey is all about and in fact what any spiritual journey is all about. We have to find faith. Faith in ourselves first and foremost and faith in the universe at large. We have to trust that we are safe to let go (and let God) and that doing so won’t result in unendurable pain and suffering. Trust that they have entered your life for a purpose. Trust that your connection is meaningful and important. Trust that you have chosen this together on some level and that you are meant to transform through this connection. Trust that you have everything you need within you to walk this journey to a happy conclusion and that the things which are unclear and confusing now, will make sense in the future. Trust that the journey, whilst challenging at times, is not meant to be painful and difficult. Trust that if it feels painful and difficult you can call on the Universe (God, your higher self, your spiritual team, your guides…) for help and support and you will always receive it. Trust that if you need help with anything all you need to do is ask and you will receive it. Trust that all the challenges you face have been chosen by you on some level to grow, expand and transform into who you are meant to be. You are the key to this journey. This journey is all about you. It’s for you. Give yourself all your focus and you won’t go wrong. How to give yourself your focus? Where do you start? The ‘WORK’ As within, so without Know thyself: What do you feel? Where have you been? What are your stories? Where do they repeat? What does your present feel like? What does your present look like? Be where you are. Can you accept what is? What do you want? What do you think? What do you believe? Does that align with what you want? Intention is everything. We are all fragmented. We all have multiple parts. We all have multiple personalities. We must find all our parts so we can unite them. Intention is everything. Inner union is the goal. When we are aligned within, we can create what we want without. We can steer our own ship.   Our world will show us who we are if we are willing to look. We are a projector; our inner self is creating the world around us. Everyone shows us something of ourselves. The Twin is our clearest mirror. Through the twin we can learn how to see ourselves. As we see ourselves clearly, the world will not have to reflect back at us. We can choose our own path. And interact with others in a pure sense. As ourselves. So they can be themselves.   Higher truths to embody: We are all an aspect of the universe experiencing itself. We are all unique and at the same time, all the same. We are all, all the ‘good’ and all the ‘bad’. We have all been ‘good’ and we have all been ‘bad’. In a higher sense there is no ‘good’ and there is no ‘bad’. Good needs the bad, and bad needs the good. Without the other, neither can exist.   Looking for support? I am both a certified astrologer and a fully signed up member of the twin flame journey. I met my twin in 2017 and meeting him activated my ' Clairs ' (I am Claircognizant, Clairsentient and Clairaudient) and I have been gratefully guided, step by step, through my journey by my team of Angels, Gods, passed on Family members and Intergalactic Beings. Read more of my twin flame story here. I offer astrology readings and have a twin flame journey reading to assist you in your awareness of who you are, and the blocks and challenges that you have chosen to overcome, in respect to your twin, in this lifetime. I also offer twin flame journey mentorship and will empower you to embrace the journey and unlock your own limitless source of inner wisdom. My guidance team assists me in all sessions to facilitate the awareness that is needed for my clients to move forward with clarity and peace of mind. Learn more about how I can serve you Work with me More Twin Flame Q & A's

  • Talking with the Moon

    "The Moon, Queen of the Night in all her silvery splendour, reaches out to us as she glides across the black, moonlit skies." Demetra George, 'Mysteries of the Dark Moon' The Moon weaves Her way through the entire zodiac every twenty-nine days and in doing so meets with all the other Gods in the palaces they currently reside. The Moon, being our closest celestial body, can be viewed as the translator, the intermediary between us on the Earth and the Gods far above. She engages with the divine energy in order to reflect it down to us as experience and feeling here on Earth, She makes it personal. Tracking the significant meetings the Moon makes can give us an idea what could be arising in our lives in our day to day as She journeys around the Earth. Why is looking at the Moon's encounters helpful? By understanding what's occurring on a grander sense, it can bring distance between what we experience and how we interpret it. It gives us a broader perspective of the experience and helps us to clarify why it's happening for us and how we can use it effectively in our lives to learn and grow. We can appreciate that the events in our lives are happening for us rather than to us and viewed from that perspective all experiences, both the more difficult and the joyous, can be seen in a more positive light. All meetings given are at UK times (currently GMT+1) please adjust for your own time zone A cycle of the Moon Beginning 'This is the moment of embarking. All auspicious signs are in place.' September 7th: Virgo Moon Conjoins the Sun ( NEW MOON ) and Trines Uranus whilst Mars Trines Pluto and Mercury Trines Jupiter With the New Moon perfecting in an exact trine to Uranus this new beginning is particularly auspicious. Uranus is the God of change and liberation, He represents the driving force within us to be different and bring about radical change. Since this supportive and expansive conversation takes place from Virgo, Mercury's sign of order and efficiency, ( "Virgo extracts what is good and makes something useful out of it." Astrology by Carole Taylor ), we are supported with the energy of focus and attention to detail and the desire to be productive and serve a greater good. Uranus is in Venus' palace of Taurus which signifies the need for deep seated change in our physical world. Although Uranus can talk of sudden change, change has to begin within us and it takes conscious effort . From 365 TAO Daily Meditations by Deng Ming-Dao What in your life isn't working right now and where would you like to see change? What steps could you take to make those desires a reality? The Moon's cycle begins with the New Moon and that energy sets the stage for the rest of the month. The intentions we make and area of life we choose to give our focus to can then be supported or tested by the meetings the Moon has with the other Gods as She progresses through her cycle. Just prior to the New Moon, Venus was speaking loudly to Mars and Pluto from her palace of Libra, suggesting that Venus is the God of the moment and Her desires are likely to flavour this Moon cycle. 'The Venus archetype manifests through our yearnings to love and be loved, to enjoy ourselves and bring pleasure to others, and to reach out in energy and connection.' [The Archetypal Universe by Renn Butler] With Venus in a Trine with Jupiter at the time of the New Moon we have a delightful expansion of Her energy to work with throughout the cycle. If we combine that with the Sun moving into Libra later in September and with Mercury turning retrograde in Libra, this Moon cycle speaks to me as an opportunity to better understand what we want from our relationships and to revisit and revise them in such a way that our horizons are broadened and our world shines a little brighter. With some explosive conversations between the Gods happening towards the end of the cycle there could be a shake up and review of our significant relationships. The Moon asks us this month to choose love and to allow it to flourish in our lives to bring us joy. September 7th: Waxing Virgo Moon Conjoins Mars and Trines Pluto September 8th: Waxing Libra Moon Trines Saturn September 9th: Waxing Libra Moon Conjoins Mercury then later in the day Squares Pluto and simultaneously Trines Jupiter September 10th: Waxing Libra Moon Conjoins Venus at the Anaretic Degree then later in the day, in Scorpio, Squares Saturn The Anaretic degree can be a trigger point and signify a difficult experience which, while tricky at the time, later we understand had purpose and taught us something of value. With the Moon joining Venus in Her palace's Anaretic degree and then moving into a Square with Saturn it seems possible that relationships will be tested, possibly around Saturnian themes such as setting good boundaries or feelings of restriction around letting go in love. September 11th: Waxing Scorpio Moon Opposes Uranus as Venus moves from her happy place in Libra into Scorpio where she's in detriment. Later that day the Moon Sextiles the Sun and Trines Neptune before She Sextiles Pluto and Squares Jupiter September 12th: Waxing Scorpio Moon Sextiles Mars before moving into Sagittarius September 13th: Waxing Sagittarius Moon Squares the Sun and Neptune as they Oppose one another September 14th: Waxing Sagittarius Moon Sextiles Jupiter whilst the Sun and Neptune are still in their Opposition then later in the day, as the Opposition goes exact, She Squares Mars in the Anaretic Degree September 15th: Waxing Capricorn Moon Trines Uranus as the Sun moves into a Trine with Pluto September 16th: Waxing Capricorn Moon Conjoins Pluto and Trines the Sun and then later in the day the Moon moves into Aquarius and Trines the recently debilitated Mars after his move into Libra as Venus picks up a Square to Saturn September 17th: Waxing Aquarius Moon Conjoins Saturn in His Sextile to Venus as the Trine between the Sun and Pluto goes exact, then later Squares Uranus whilst all these conversations are still active September 18th: Waxing Aquarius Moon picks up a Trine to Mercury shortly before She Conjoins Jupiter September 19th: Waxing Pisces Moon Trines Venus as Mercury moves into a Trine with Jupiter then later forms a Sextile with Uranus September 20th: Waxing Pisces Moon Conjoins Neptune whilst Mercury continues to Trine Jupiter then She picks up a Sextile to Pluto as Mercury also starts to Square Pluto September 21st: Pisces Moon Opposes the Sun ( FULL MOON ) whilst Mercury Trines Jupiter and Squares Pluto and then later that day She moves into Aries and Opposes Mars and then Sextiles Saturn September 23rd: Waning Aries Moon picks up a Sextile to Jupiter just as She starts to oppose Mercury and Square Pluto as Mercury's Square to Pluto gets tighter whilst at the same time Venus takes up Her opposition to Uranus and the Sun moves into Libra This aspect pattern is known in modern astrology as a Cardinal T-Square (or T-Cross) and signifies driven, dynamic force. In this case Pluto is at the Apex (the focal planet) meaning that much of the dynamic movement takes place here. [Astrology by Carole Taylor] September 24th: Waning Taurus Moon Squares Saturn before joining Uranus in His opposition to Venus while Mercury continues to Square Pluto and Mars Trines Saturn September 25th: Waning Taurus Moon forms a Sextile with Neptune before moving into the Square with Jupiter then a Trine with Pluto September 26th: Waning Gemini Moon Trines Mars and then Saturn as Mars Trines Saturn This aspect pattern is called The Grand Trine and suggests an easy flow of energy between the Gods. A Grand Trine in Air signs signifies ease in communication and social interaction. [Astrology by Carole Taylor] September 27th: Waning Gemini Moon Squares Neptune and Trines Jupiter September 28th: Waning Gemini Moon Trines Jupiter and Mercury just as He stations to turn retrograde whilst simultaneously Conjoined Sun and Mars Trine Saturn September 29th: A busy Waning Cancer Moon Squares the Sun as the Sun Trines Saturn at the same time that Neptune Trines Venus and retrograde Mercury reforms the Square with Pluto then a few hours later She Squares Mars and Trines Saturn before forming a Sextile with Uranus September 30th: Waning Cancer Moon Trines Neptune and Venus while Venus Trines Neptune and Squares Jupiter whilst in the same moment the Sun Trines Saturn and a slow retrograde Mercury continues to Square Pluto A Grand Trine in Water suggests a deep reservoir of sensitivity and feeling, a skill at picking up emotional undercurrents and ability to tune in on a deeper psychic level [Astrology by Carole Taylor] A day of magnitude since later on the 30th She forms a T-Square with Pluto and Mercury In this T-Square Mercury is at the Apex (God in focus) indicating dynamic, emotionally driven (Moon) communication (Mercury) brought up from the depths (Pluto) October 1st: Waning Leo Moon Opposes Saturn whilst Pluto Squares Mars and Venus Squares Jupiter and Sextiles Pluto then later forms a Sextile to the Sun, their last aspect before She enters her Dark Moon phase October 2nd: Waning Leo Moon Squares Uranus whilst Mercury continues to Square Pluto and Venus Sextiles Pluto before Opposing Jupiter as Mercury also picks up a Trine to Jupiter in His backward motion, a conversation the Moon joins in with as She Sextiles Mercury and Squares Venus October 3rd: The Moon, now deep into her Dark Moon phase, enters Virgo, the palace where her cycle began October 4th: After a peaceful few hours the Waning Virgo Moon Trines Uranus before Opposing Neptune whilst the Sun moves into a Conjunction with Mars and Mercury moves into a Trine with Jupiter October 5th: Waning Virgo Moon Trines Pluto as Mercury Trines Jupiter then finishes off the cycle of conversations by forming a Sextile with Venus and bringing conclusion to the journeys we've taken with Her throughout the period 'When you come to the end of a cycle, a new one will begin.' 365 Days of Tao From 365 TAO Daily Meditations by Deng Ming-Dao The New Moon and a new cycle of conversations begins on the 6th of October with a Stellium of four planets in Libra including the Moon, the Sun and Mars all exactly Conjunct. A new cycle will begin and a new story will unfold. For more detail on the energies these conversations may bring to the fore and how they might affect us on Earth please check out my Instagram account and Facebook pages - links below. Please let me know in the comments how you found this cycle of the Moon and tell me if any of the conversations resonated with you in your life. It is my aim to empower you to be able to view these connections in relationship to you and your life. Understanding your own birth chart placements, and the houses these meetings take place in, will enable you to see their influence on your life more clearly and allow you to learn how to make the most out of them. If you'd like to learn about your birth chart and how to relate the transits to you then please book a reading with me. This post references the following books: 365 Tao Daily Meditations by Deng Ming-Dao The Archetypal Universe by Renn Butler Astrology Using the wisdom of the stars in your every day life by Carole Taylor All fantastic books which I highly recommend to anyone on the path of self awareness.

  • Neptune: God of Transcendence

    Neptune: The God Who Dissolves Us Into Wholeness There is a God who doesn’t speak through logic or reason, but through longing. Through beauty that undoes you. Through dreams that feel more real than daylight. He doesn’t arrive with clarity or instruction. He appears in the blur, the fog, the shimmer at the edges of your vision. He is Neptune: God of Transcendence . And when He moves through your life, you feel it not as a push, but as a pull. “You are not a drop in the ocean. You are the entire ocean in a drop.” — Rumi Neptune is not of this world, though He reaches into it constantly. He is the force that reminds us we are more than our lists, our labels, our logic. We came from something infinite, and the ache we carry is the memory of that truth. He draws us to the unseen and the unfixed: to music that softens us, art that stirs something ancient, love that moves through us like a tide. He lives in dreams. In poetry. In moments where time dissolves and all that’s left is feeling. He teaches through surrender. Through letting go. Through opening; not to certainty, but to wonder. “The moment you know yourself, you have known the most precious thing in existence.” — Osho Neptune asks us to loosen our grip. To stop striving and soften into being. He doesn’t build or destroy. Neptune melts. He blends. He returns us to the sea from which we came. This is the energy of the womb, the ocean, the mystic, the artist, the dreamer, the lover of all. He moves us through compassion, through vision, through longing for something more. But He also tempts. He can blur reality so much that we lose our footing. He can seduce us with illusions and false promises of safety. He can confuse us, wrap us in fantasy, and leave us grasping at shadows. There’s a risk of escaping life instead of embracing it. “To lose yourself is the path to find the real you.” — Eckhart Tolle 🌊 How to Feel Neptune You might feel Him when: You cry during a piece of music and don’t know why You want to disappear into a bath, a novel, a dream You sense the suffering of someone else as if it were your own You’re longing for something you can’t name You feel like you’ve lost yourself in someone—or in love itself You remember, for one moment, that you are  Love Neptune invites us to dissolve—not to vanish, but to return. To re-enter the mystery. To find our soul again. “When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be.” — Lao Tzu ✨ Neptune in Your Birth Chart Neptune is slow-moving, staying in one sign for about 14 years, shaping the dreams and illusions of whole generations. But where He lives in your birth chart by house , and how He connects with your personal planets, is where His voice speaks most directly to you . ✨ Neptune in the Houses Neptune’s placement in your birth chart shows where your soul longs to dissolve the boundaries. Where you yearn for something higher, deeper, more beautiful. But it’s also where life might feel confusing, dreamy, or hard to pin down. Where you're being called to trust what you can’t yet see. Each house Neptune touches becomes a space of both invitation  and illusion . A place where you might drift off course before finding a more soulful way through. Neptune in the 1st House You might be a walking dream to others - mystical, sensitive, hard to define. Your sense of self can feel fluid, like you’re always becoming someone new. Others may project onto you. You’re learning to see yourself clearly without losing your softness. Your presence alone can be healing. Theme:  Who am I really? Gift:  Compassionate presence Challenge:  Identity confusion, taking on others’ feelings Neptune in the 2nd House Money, value, and self-worth may feel slippery. You might idealise wealth or avoid material concerns altogether. Your values are deeply spiritual - you're here to find meaning beyond possessions. But be mindful of vague boundaries in financial matters. Theme:  What is truly valuable? Gift:  Spiritual abundance, soulful simplicity Challenge:  Financial fog, low self-esteem Neptune in the 3rd House Communication is intuitive, poetic, symbolic. You feel your way through words. You may have struggled to speak up, or to trust your voice. But you’re here to share something sacred - through stories, softness, or spiritual insight. Theme:  How do I express myself? Gift:  Inspired communication, sacred noticing Challenge:  Mental fog, miscommunication, doubt in your voice Neptune in the 4th House Your roots may feel mysterious, nostalgic, or painful to define. You may dream of the perfect home or family but find reality falls short. This placement asks you to build inner sanctuary and to find a spiritual sense of belonging within. Theme:  Where do I belong? Gift:  Creating soul-nourishing spaces Challenge:  Emotional confusion, idealising the past or family Neptune in the 5th House You express yourself like a dream - romantically, artistically, soulfully. But you may lose yourself in love or long for a soulmate who never quite arrives. You're here to create from the heart, to love like poetry, and to find joy that flows from the divine. Theme:  How do I love and create? Gift:  Inspired creativity, divine romance Challenge:  Disillusionment in love, confusion with children or artistic direction Neptune in the 6th House You may feel deeply sensitive to work, health, and routines. Your body absorbs emotion, and healing might need to include the soul. You long for meaningful service, but must be careful not to self-sacrifice or dissolve into overwork. Theme:  How do I serve and care for my body? Gift:  Healing through devotion, work as a spiritual path Challenge:  Vague health issues, martyrdom, burnout Neptune in the 7th House Relationships are often romanticised. You may attract or become the “saviour” or “dream lover” - only to find the fantasy fades. You’re learning to love without losing yourself. To build soul union, not escape through another. Theme:  How do I relate to others? Gift:  Sacred partnership, compassion in love Challenge:  Co-dependence, projection, disillusionment Neptune in the 8th House You feel the invisible threads that bind people. You may be drawn to spiritual intimacy, psychic insight, or deep transformation. But emotional entanglement, power dynamics, or inherited pain can cloud things. You’re here to surrender and regenerate. Theme:  What lies beneath the surface? Gift:  Spiritual depth, emotional alchemy Challenge:  Addictions, blurred sexual or financial boundaries Neptune in the 9th House You’re a seeker of truth, but not through logic. You’re drawn to mysticism, spiritual teachings, or faraway philosophies. You long to merge with the divine through study, travel, or belief, but you may need to discern between real insight and false prophets. Theme:  What do I believe in? Gift:  Spiritual vision, devotion to the mystery Challenge:  Escapism through belief, disillusionment with religion or meaning Neptune in the 10th House Your public life may be shrouded in mystery or confusion. You might dream of a soulful vocation but struggle to define it. You may be seen as an ideal or projection by others. You're learning to offer your gifts in service to something higher. Theme:  What is my calling? Gift:  A spiritual approach to career and legacy Challenge:  Lack of clarity in career, unrealistic ambitions, burnout from being “everything to everyone” Neptune in the 11th House You long to belong, to find your soul tribe, to be part of a greater vision. You’re a dreamer of better worlds, but your ideals can sometimes cloud reality. You're here to offer compassion to the collective, but you must also hold your own shape. Theme:  Where do I belong in the world? Gift:  Visionary connection, compassion for humanity Challenge:  Disappointment in friendships, blurred group boundaries Neptune in the 12th House You were born close to the veil. Your inner world is vast, rich, and mysterious. There may be unconscious fears, ancestral wounds, or deep empathy that floods your system. But you’re also deeply connected to spirit and can access wisdom beyond words. Theme:  What am I here to release and remember? Gift:  Mystical insight, deep compassion Challenge:  Escapism, emotional overwhelm, difficulty staying grounded Wherever Neptune sits in your chart, He calls for compassion and imagination, but also discernment. Neptune by Sign (for everyone born from the 1940s to now) Neptune in Libra (1942–1956) A generation longing for peace, beauty, harmony, and idealised relationships. Often deeply romantic and spiritually drawn to balance. Neptune in Scorpio (1956–1970) Mysticism meets intensity. A deep pull towards the hidden and taboo. Longing for soulful transformation. Risk of spiritualised obsession or emotional escape. Neptune in Sagittarius (1970–1984) Seekers of truth. Dreamers of freedom. Big vision. Spirituality meets adventure. But beware of illusion in beliefs or guru-worship. Neptune in Capricorn (1984–1998) This generation dreams of structure, responsibility, spiritual integrity. They may struggle between material ambition and inner yearning. Neptune in Aquarius (1998–2012) Visionary souls. Drawn to collective healing, humanitarian ideals, and spiritual innovation. But may blur boundaries in communities or tech. Neptune in Pisces (2012–2026) These are the mystics, artists, sensitives, and empaths. Born into the dream. Carrying the frequency of oneness. But they’ll need grounding to stay anchored in a rapidly dissolving world. 💫 What Neptune Speaks Of, For All of Us He speaks of oneness: you were never separate He teaches compassion: for yourself, for others, for the human condition He reminds you of the power of imagination , vision , and faith He invites you to surrender. Not to weakness, but to something greater He dissolves what no longer serves, and shows you what love really is But Neptune will never force you. He waits. Softly. Lovingly. Just outside the edge of what you think you know. The question isn’t whether He’s present in your life. It’s whether you’ll allow yourself to feel Him. “I have seen the truth. It is not as though I had invented it with my mind. I have seen it, seen it with my eyes.” — Fyodor Dostoevsky 🕯️ Would you like to meet Neptune more deeply? Look to your dreams. Let yourself cry. Notice beauty. Create. Meditate. Listen to music that opens your heart. Trust the silence. Get lost on purpose. And then, come home to yourself. A note on AI & my writing: I use ChatGPT as a writing assistant—not as a writer. These are my thoughts, ideas, and words, shaped by my lived experience and deep love for self-work, self-awareness, the spiritual journey, and astrology. AI helps me refine, structure, and occasionally nudge me toward better phrasing, but the voice you’re reading is mine. I use it as a tool to help me put into words everything I believe is valuable in sharing my insights. Honesty matters to me, and this is simply one way I bring my thoughts to life.

  • Venus Direct 12th April 2025

    Inanna Rises, and So Do We “This is the way of things: the descent, the reckoning, the return. And none of us come back the same.” Next weekend, Venus stations direct. She’s been retrograde for 40 days, echoing the ancient myths where journeys to the underworld were not only expected, but necessary. And now, She pauses. She stands still. She begins to move forward again. But not as the Venus we knew before. She is changed. And so are we. The Descent of Inanna: The Oldest Story of Becoming Long before Venus was a planet in the sky, She was Inanna , Queen of Heaven and Earth, in the ancient Sumerian myths. When Inanna heard the call to descend into the underworld, Her sister’s realm, She prepared herself. At each of the seven gates, She was stripped of Her royal garments, Her power, Her status. Until She stood naked, defenceless, in the depths of the dark. There, She died. And then, in time, She rose again. But not unchanged. Inanna’s return wasn’t triumphant in the way we’re used to. It was not a reclaiming of status, it was a claiming of truth . She came back knowing both the light and the dark. Knowing death, loss, surrender, and the fierce compassion that comes from facing it all. Venus as Inanna: A Living Myth in the Sky Every Venus retrograde is an echo of Inanna’s journey. When Venus turns inward (retrograde), She leads us down. We revisit love, what we’ve given, what we’ve lost, what we’ve longed for. We walk through the aching gaps between what we hoped love would be and what it’s actually been. This one has been no exception. Venus retrograde in Aries and Pisces has had us questioning who we are in relationship, not just with others, but with ourselves. What we value. What we desire. What we’re worthy of. Now She turns direct. But before She walks forward again, She meets Saturn, God of endings, karma, and consequence. This is no flippant reset. This is a line in the sand. A reckoning. A promise: never again will I abandon myself for the illusion of love . This Is the Hero’s Journey We are all walking a version of this path. Not to be perfect, but to be real. To return to the world with clearer eyes and a stronger heart. Carl Jung called it individuation . The slow, brave process of becoming more and more ourselves. Stripping away what was inherited, expected, or performed. Claiming what’s true. Forging meaning from the mess. Joseph Campbell called it the Hero’s Journey . The path that begins in the ordinary world, descends into trial and darkness, and finally returns home, bearing a new gift. But the real treasure is always who we’ve become . That’s what Venus retrograde has been. A descent into the heart. A stripping away. A remembering. And now… a return. But with Saturn involved, this is a karmic checkpoint. The ending of an old pattern. A final door closing. And perhaps, a new one opening, into a love that is built on truth, not fantasy. A life that fits the you  who is rising now. What Now? Venus will stand still. She’s not rushing forward. Neither should you. Let the stillness speak. Let it show you what matters now. And what doesn’t. Because you don’t come back from the underworld unchanged. And that’s the point. Reflection: What did you see during this retrograde that you can’t unsee? What have you let go of that you once thought you couldn’t live without? Who are you now? And what are you ready to claim? Venus turns direct in Pisces, conjunct Saturn. She’s hosting the Full Moon in Libra. She’s looking Mars in the eye. This isn’t just astrology. It’s initiation. The kind that changes everything. A note on AI & my writing: I use ChatGPT as a writing assistant—not as a writer. These are my thoughts, ideas, and words, shaped by my lived experience and deep love for self-work, self-awareness, the spiritual journey, and astrology. AI helps me refine, structure, and occasionally nudge me toward better phrasing, but the voice you’re reading is mine. I use it as a tool to help me put into words everything I believe is valuable in sharing my insights. Honesty matters to me, and this is simply one way I bring my thoughts to life.

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