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What if the "twin flame runner" simply doesn't want me anymore and I am just delusional?

A few years ago, a couple of years into my journey, I went through a phase of answering questions on Quora. I was just reminded of this answer which has had over 8000 views and 80 upvotes so it's clearly a common question.

You're Crazy - my twin sung this at me at the point when I was feeling most crazy. Always a mirror!

Answered in June 2019:

Finding this truth within yourself and answering this question is the biggest challenge of the twin flame journey in my opinion. And how you feel about it can change from one moment to the next. Am I crazy? Is what I can ‘see’ in this reality real or is what I feel, what I ‘see’ in my heart real? It’s categorised by an awful lot of wtf moments.

At the very beginning of my journey, now fifteen months ago, when this mind-blowing, ultimate connection I’d found and shared had stated clearly that they weren’t interested in a relationship with me, when I learned of the twin flame concept, I came across this truth:

If you think you’re on a twin flame path and you’ve met your twin flame, then you probably have.

It is a crazy journey. And feeling crazy and navigating through all that is a massive part of it.

My advice, having traversed all that and come out the other side, would be to try your hardest to trust in yourself and what you’re feeling. At the end of the day it doesn’t matter. You have fallen in love with this person. If you can heal what they’re showing you you need to heal, if you can reflect the love you feel for them onto yourself, then you’ll either transform yourself and them (if they’re your twin they share your energy) into someone capable of a divine and sacred love, or you’ll attract the person who you are destined to share the journey of love with. Either way it’s a win win:

When love is the final destination, follow that path to the end and you can’t lose.

Added to in 2021:

Now 4 years into my journey, I wholeheartedly stand by this answer. The truth is there is a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Dive in and follow your heart, it will lead you to who you are and the life you desire.

October 2023:

Love is always the answer, and there's nothing wrong with a little crazy.


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