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What is surrender on the twin flame journey? How do we do it?

The twin flame journey is a journey back to the truth of who you are.

The journey will free you from all the pain and programming you have endured over lifetimes on earth. This is a process and there is design to it.

If you are here then you are on the journey whether you believe you have met your twin or not.

The journey to conscious partnership takes time and requires patience, discipline and discernment.

As you progress on your journey you can be assured your twin is also progressing whether you are in physical contact with them or not.

We all have everything we need.

Have faith that you know what you need to do and how to negotiate your journey to a happy outcome.

Know you have all the answers you seek within you.

If at any time you are struggling or feel stuck all you need do is ask your self for help.

Know you are being led and guided in every moment and trust that what you are experiencing is for your highest good.

These are all things I have been told and taught. However, I don’t KNOW anything. I may be entirely crazy and completely wrong. The only person you should trust to give you the answers you need is you. What’s meant for you will find you. If this isn’t for you then let it go and move on.

My thoughts on SURRENDER based on my experience:

SURRENDER is a process and it happens in layers. This takes time. You can only shed one layer at a time and with each layer you shed you will fall deeper into the energy of surrender. Be gentle with yourself as you go through the process.

SURRENDER will happen for you whether you work at it or not.

SURRENDER is radical acceptance.

SURRENDER is something only YOU can do.

SURRENDER is painful and difficult.

SURRENDER is blissful.

SURRENDER is simple and straightforward.


𝟭 𝗔𝗰𝗰𝗲𝗽𝘁 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹. You love them. You want a relationship with them. Their absence is the most painful thing you’ve ever experienced. You are angry. You are frightened. You are confused. You are delighted. You are grateful. All your feelings are valid. All your feelings are acceptable.

𝟮 𝗔𝗰𝗰𝗲𝗽𝘁 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗯𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗲𝘃𝗲. The twin flame concept is nuts (let’s face it). Believing you are uniquely tied to another person is crazy. Believe it anyway. This needs to be embodied. The world will show you what you believe by reflecting it back to you. If you have any doubt then others will doubt you. When you’ve embodied it, if you tell someone you are a twin flame and have met your twin they will believe you without question. Work your way through the layers of disbelief and doubt you hold within and let the world show you how you’re getting on with it.

𝟯 𝗔𝗰𝗰𝗲𝗽𝘁 𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗜𝗦. Accept how things are (really accept - be brutally honest with yourself - don’t pretend to yourself that he really likes you if his actions and words say differently). We live in multiple realities and accepting the reality of this one is key to changing it. This will be painful. That’s okay. Until we grieve and heal the pain of this reality we cannot create a new one.

Okay - as if to make a point this (coincidentally) happened with my next header demonstrating very clearly that this is not within my control (or yours)….

4 𝔄𝔠𝔠𝔢𝔭𝔱 𝔱𝔥𝔞𝔱 𝔱𝔥𝔦𝔰 𝔦𝔰 𝔟𝔦𝔤𝔤𝔢𝔯 𝔱𝔥𝔞𝔫 𝔶𝔬𝔲 𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔱𝔥𝔢𝔯𝔢𝔣𝔬𝔯𝔢 𝔫𝔬𝔱 𝔢𝔫𝔱𝔦𝔯𝔢𝔩𝔶 𝔴𝔦𝔱𝔥𝔦𝔫 𝔶𝔬𝔲𝔯 𝔠𝔬𝔫𝔱𝔯𝔬𝔩.

4 𝕬𝖈𝖈𝖊𝖕𝖙 𝖙𝖍𝖆𝖙 𝖙𝖍𝖎𝖘 𝖎𝖘 𝖇𝖎𝖌𝖌𝖊𝖗 𝖙𝖍𝖆𝖓 𝖞𝖔𝖚 𝖆𝖓𝖉 𝖙𝖍𝖊𝖗𝖊𝖋𝖔𝖗𝖊 𝖓𝖔𝖙 𝖊𝖓𝖙𝖎𝖗𝖊𝖑𝖞 𝖜𝖎𝖙𝖍𝖎𝖓 𝖞𝖔𝖚𝖗 𝖈𝖔𝖓𝖙𝖗𝖔𝖑. ♖

➃ 𝔸C¢乇Ƥ𝔱 t卄𝔞t 𝐓卄𝓲ş ίs ᗷi𝓰ge尺 ⓣнαη Ў𝓸ย Ã𝔫ⓓ ᵗĦ𝔼яєⓕ𝕆Ř𝔢ŇỖ𝔱 ẸⓃⓣⓘᖇᵉ𝓛𝕪 𝐖𝒾T𝐡𝒾N 𝕪Ⓞ𝐮𝐑 ℃ⓞ𝐍TROℓ.

4 𝓐𝓬𝓬𝓮𝓹𝓽 𝓽𝓱𝓪𝓽 𝓽𝓱𝓲𝓼 𝓲𝓼 𝓫𝓲𝓰𝓰𝓮𝓻 𝓽𝓱𝓪𝓷 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓮𝓯𝓸𝓻𝓮 𝓷𝓸𝓽 𝓮𝓷𝓽𝓲𝓻𝓮𝓵𝔂 𝔀𝓲𝓽𝓱𝓲𝓷 𝔂𝓸𝓾𝓻 𝓬𝓸𝓷𝓽𝓻𝓸𝓵. 𝟦 𝒜𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓅𝓉 𝓉𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝓉𝒽𝒾𝓈 𝒾𝓈 𝒷𝒾𝑔𝑔𝑒𝓇 𝓉𝒽𝒶𝓃 𝓎𝑜𝓊 𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝓉𝒽𝑒𝓇𝑒𝒻𝑜𝓇𝑒 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝓇𝑒𝓁𝓎 𝓌𝒾𝓉𝒽𝒾𝓃 𝓎𝑜𝓊𝓇 𝒸𝑜𝓃𝓉𝓇𝑜𝓁.

𝟜 𝔸𝕔𝕔𝕖𝕡𝕥 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕤 𝕚𝕤 𝕓𝕚𝕘𝕘𝕖𝕣 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕟 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣𝕖𝕗𝕠𝕣𝕖 𝕟𝕠𝕥 𝕖𝕟𝕥𝕚𝕣𝕖𝕝𝕪 𝕨𝕚𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕟 𝕪𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕔𝕠𝕟𝕥𝕣𝕠𝕝.

4 loɹʇuoɔ ɹnoʎ uıɥʇıʍ ʎlǝɹıʇuǝ ʇou ǝɹoɟǝɹǝɥʇ puɐ noʎ uɐɥʇ ɹǝɓɓıq sı sıɥʇ ʇɐɥʇ ʇdǝɔɔ∀

𝟰 𝗔𝗰𝗰𝗲𝗽𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝘀 𝗯𝗶𝗴𝗴𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗿𝗲𝗹𝘆 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂r 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗿𝗼𝗹. You can control your behaviour and your actions. You can take control of your self and do the work needed to bring yourself back to your true essence. Bring all your focus to yourself and show yourself the love and attention you deserve. Let go of trying to control everything else. Have faith that it is being taken care of and conserve all of your energy for you. You need it.

𝟱 𝗔𝗰𝗰𝗲𝗽𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝘀 𝗵𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗙𝗢𝗥 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗼𝘂𝘁𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗯𝗲 𝗚𝗢𝗢𝗗. Have faith. Essentially you can encapsulate SURRENDER by saying let go and let God but saying that and actually being able to embody that is a leap. Break it down into smaller steps and work on one step at a time.

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